I had assumed I would retire at 60 but got notice at the last minute that I would now retire at 62.5 If I had been 3 months older it would have stayed at 60 I was born in July 1953 and the cut off point for the change was in April 1953. I paid extra stamps to cover the years I stayed home with 3 children but apart from them I worked full time since I was 16. The change meant that even with the extra payments when I claimed my state pension I didn't get quite the full amount. I retired a year early from the NHS ( my job changed and was so stressful I couldn't bear to work it another year) so I lost 10% of my work pension doing that. I left an abusive marriage at a similar time and walked away with no share of ex's pension because his constant delaying/ obstructing meant my divorce fees cost so much that it used up the whole of my lump sum when I left. The two work pensions I have in my own right are very small and when the tax is taken every month they are tiny. I now manage only by continuing to work part time and the way I see it will always have to work as I just couldn't pay my outgoings if I didn't. I can't downsize any more I already live in a (lovely) one bedroom flat. So yes I think we have all had a rubbish deal but if you have a partner to help with finances count yourself lucky.
Ladies would you post on a predominantly male forum on a sexual matter?
Have you even unknowingly put your foot in it?
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