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We’ve been scammed!

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maddyone Thu 14-Oct-21 10:04:24

I’m letting others know of this so no one else gets caught like we did. Our daughter and her family are living in New Zealand for two years. Yesterday I received a message from her saying she had a new phone and number. The message came via WhatsApp which is how we communicate for texts since she left this country. Anyway last night we had a message from her saying could we make a payment for her as her new phone wouldn’t let her make the payment. We thought this very strange but we made the payment as requested thinking that maybe there was a problem for her. It was difficult because as we were doing it, it turned out to be particularly difficult to make as the message ‘potential scam’ but my husband said that message sometimes comes up when it’s not a scam. Anyway we made the payment which was for over £1200 as she said it was for their rent and must be paid today. We are complete suckers aren’t we? How stupid of us. We then went to bed. A second request came but we ignored it, saying we’ll speak to our daughter in the morning. So this morning we video called her. She hasn’t changed her phone number, it was a scam. We had tried to ring her several times but the call was always rejected. Because our evening is the day time in New Zealand and our daughter was working yesterday as a doctor, we assumed she couldn’t take the calls as she was seeing patients. How stupid could we be! When we spoke to our daughter and son in law this morning (their evening) we discovered it was a scam. We immediately got on to our bank, and they are dealing with it, and the bank are recovering the money from the charging bank. We will not be out of pocket, and the bank are dealing with everything, including police. We were lucky, it could have been much worse.

Anyway, that is a common scam according to our bank. So if you get a WhatsApp message from from your son/daughter saying they’ve changed their phone and number, and then later asking for money, please check with your adult child that they have actually changed their phone number and do not transfer any money until you have actually spoken to your child. The scammers will not answer your calls, your child will.

freedomfromthepast Sat 23-Oct-21 23:18:23

I am so sorry Maddyone. I hate to report that my husband fell for something while we were on vacation earlier this week. It happens SO FAST!

Scammers have learned how to make things look so authentic and it only takes a second when distracted to fall for it.

We were not out any money, but we did have to lock down credit as it has all been compromised. They tried to get me the next day by calling me. Luckily, I hung up on the woman.

welbeck Sun 24-Oct-21 02:23:26

remember that the criminals are expert at doing this.
it is their way of life, their daily work, so to speak.
so don't feel bad if you get caught. they are expert fishers/phishers.
rather be glad that you do not have a criminal's mind or intent.

Forestflame Tue 26-Oct-21 19:59:55

It is possible to set up an access code on WhatsApp. Anybody trying to hack into your account would need the access code. You need to go into your privacy settings to set it up.

MerylStreep Tue 26-Oct-21 20:10:09

Have WhatsApp users seen this.

www.forbes.com/sites/zakdoffman/2021/05/19/apple-iphone-and-google-android-users-do-you-need-to-change-your-whatsapp-settings/?sh=2190428039a0

Luckygirl Tue 26-Oct-21 20:12:42

There are some truly horrid people around. Thank you for your warning.

Please do not feel you have been silly - these people are very very clever. Many sensible people have been taken in.

I am gad that the bank is going to sort it all for you.

maddyone Tue 26-Oct-21 22:40:04

Thank you again for all your kind comments and good advice. We got the money back into our account yesterday and the person/persons who did this have been apprehended by the police and the case is going to court. I’m so glad it has been helpful to many of you to know the way these people operate. An apparent message from your adult child asking for you to make a payment for them which they will refund is difficult to refuse. As my adult child said, I would never ask you in a text/WhatsApp message to borrow money, please speak to me in person if anything like this happens again, even if I’ve apparently changed my phone. That’s the best advice I think.

Juno56 Tue 26-Oct-21 23:37:47

I'm so glad your money was repaid maddyone. Thank you so much for your warning. I had just such a WhatsApp message this evening and due to your post on here my suspicions were immediately aroused and I did not respond to it. The message was reported and number blocked.

maddyone Tue 26-Oct-21 23:44:02

Juno I am really happy that my warning helped you avoid what happened to us. Excellent news.