My father recently passed away, leaving my 82 year old mum a widow. I live nearby, my DH and myself organised the funeral etc. I have 2 brothers, my parents have not seen my older brother for years, my youngest brother is 2 hours away, and often visits. My older brother was informed of my dads illness and death, never made any effort to visit or phone or attend his funeral. Yesterday we all visited the solicitor, everything passes to my mother, my older brother is on her will, along with his son, I asked her to take them off and do a new will, I expressed my annoyance of this (always say what I think) but she said ‘just leave it as it is’. My younger brother said, ‘it’s her will, and up to her’.
Obviously, this has annoyed me, as I do lots for her, and so does my DH and DD. It’s not about the money, as we are ‘well off’. It’s the fact that I run around taking her shopping and she always comes over for Sunday lunch, and I feel upset that my older brother and son make no effort to see her, or even phone her, but will left a substantial amount when my mother passes.
Do I speak to her? My hubby said ‘next time she asks for help, tell her to contact the brother’
I understand she’s grieving for my DD, but still I find this hard to accept.
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