Witzend
*Dickens*, it’s all very well to hold classes on the constitutional rights of women, but cultural attitudes have often been ingrained over a lifetime, and I doubt that they’re often really going to change after a few hours of well-meant teaching.
I quite agree.
And those cultural attitudes were clearly not going to change for, at least, one of the young men interviewed who attended the classes, who maintained his 'cultural stance' about women.
I don't know how widespread the problem is, but it certainly has caused problems in Germany (hence the classes).
And this has to be acknowledged. It has to be talked about because to ignore it as a problem and deem any debate on the matter xenophobic simply provokes a backlash. It may be a very small minority who maintain their rigid cultural position - but we don't know, because we don't talk about it.
Back in the 60s I had a Turkish boyfriend - he was a great admirer of Kemal Atatürk, the reforming first president of the Republic of Turkey (who pushed through reforms granting suffrage and inheritance rights for women). When I met his family, they made it abundantly clear that they did not approve of my 'western' ways. They spoke little English so weren't able to articulate their concerns, but the disdainful shakes of heads, lowering of eyes when I spoke, and glares when they thought I wasn't noticing, spoke volumes. We eventually split up but kept in touch on and off throughout the years He eventually married a Catholic girl who had renounced the faith, and most of his family disowned him. They, the family, lived narrow insular lives, never integrating, only learning sufficient English to 'get by'; the younger women (sisters) were allowed to work, but only in servile jobs where they had little opportunity to absorb 'western ways' and only until they were married - one of them to a cousin.
Just a small snapshot of a personal experience. Did it matter? Does it matter if people live side by side, each with their own rigid culture? Maybe it doesn't - until there is an 'event' that draws both sides to oppose each other, and we have what are called "clashes" which hit the headlines, and then all hell breaks loose.
We need to talk about these issues, and we also need to dispel myths and misconceptions, too.