Stansgran - I know the Manchester family well. They were neighbours for a while, it was a complete nightmare, aggressive, drug dealing, criminal gang of crooks. Huge extended family, and whilst I acknowledge all the children, including the ones currently in their 40's and in HMP had a very tough childhood, they also made choices. So many agencies and ordinary people have tried to help them, but they enjoy their notoriety I believe. They also relish the power it gives them over other people. His uncle was one of those arrested during the Manchester riots. He had a gang of young lads out stealing from shops and was caught on CTV taking goods from them, and putting stuff in the back of his car. His mother cannot have failed to know exactly what she was exposing her son to, i.e. drug dealing, crime, violence, guns etc.
I agree Jing, that some of us have a better chance in life than others, but because of the nature of my work, and in my personal life, I know many people who had very tough childhoods, but did not choose to continue the criminal and abusive lifestyle in which they grew up.