Forgot to say- that after I returned here for a while after my 6 months work visa came to an end- DH came to visit and we really wanted to be together. Then I had a terrible car crash- and spent 7 months in hospital- and it was clear I may lose my leg, or at least be invalid for quite some time (thank goodness it turned out to be the latter)- so there was no way I could return to UK, unless we got married- so we had to, but for very different reasons t the usual 'had to'... that was 45 years + 1 day- in our local hospital.
DH's salary was very low at the time. Nowadays, as part of EU or Switzerland, I could go back to be with him once married. But this would not be possible for non EU, unless the British spouse has a salary of at least £18.000. A young couple we befriended here, he Scottish and she Thai- wanted to go back as he just couldn't get work here and she was made redundant. But as a self-employed man, they were not allowed to go back to UK as he couldn't prove he would earn the magical 18.000. In the end, she got a really good job in Scotland- and they were able to make the move. I think many people have no idea just how difficult it would be to move around Europe if we are out of EU.
I remember the days when I had to queue at airports in a different queue to DH and our baby- before I acquired UK citizenship in 73.