Mawbroom, I can see that a lot of people will have spent all or most of their lives living in Britain with an increasing control by the EU. Clearly for you, Europe, is part of who you are. Your connections and sources of work and family make Europe personal. What I would ask you, is it Europe that your fond of or is it the EU as an organisation?
You see, for lots of people living in the UK, that physical and family 'connection' with Europe is not there. I think you will agree that this alters the perspective to a non European one to being controlled by the EU.
Your view that "Brexit is taking us back to a past", which past is that? We have been increasingly controlled over many years, but more and more since 1973, forty five years, if we only count from then. So, which past are you talking about?
Brexit is about change, it is about the future, it is about leaving a failing system before it brings us down with it. You know Europe well from what you say. You clearly love it, presumably the lifestyle, climate, job, and the connection with your family. It is understandable that you will not want those familiar things to change. They won't unless as I sense it will the EU structure destroy's the economic, political and social structures. We are seeing these things happening now. You must from what you say have access to European Newsprint. The love affair with the EU is definitely on the rocks in a number of countries.
Brexit is about the future. It is embracing the enormous world changes that are being brought about as a capitalist world demands free market trading, if any country is to survive it has to be able to respond to economic threats quickly to protect it's social and political structures, in our case a Parliamentary democracy. I suspect that there will be enormous changes, inevitably that is how humanity moves forward, otherwise we would still be in the dark age. It is always better not to have a cataclysmic event to bring about change.
Brexit is not only bringing about necessary change for Britain, it is also bringing about change for the EU that is essential for them too. There are 27 countries, tied together by the euro, when things go wrong they cannot react quickly enough and will very quickly lag behind, with the speed of technology, training, and transferable skills, that is if their economies survive.
Brexit is about the future, not the past, and with respect, you are making an error to think that the past is a place that I want to go to, nor do any leave voters I have spoken with. The past would lead back to an EU past, that's what we want to get away from. Onwards and upwards that's where Brexit will take us, forward into the twenty first century.