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Harper Beckham, a chorus of disapproval.

(104 Posts)
Spangler Mon 10-Aug-20 15:40:58

There's a photo of nine year old Harper Beckham on Instagram: www.instagram.com/p/CDO-V07h5I4/?utm_source=ig_embed showing her out with her parents. According to Instagram users, she's growing up way too fast.

It seems perfectly acceptable to me, but then I see children at dance competitions dressed up like the adults, little girls wearing make-up, small boys in bow ties. Am I being to lenient?

My only concern would be that being on the internet, you don't know who is viewing your child, or what their agenda is.

Callistemon Mon 10-Aug-20 20:02:01

MawB

I painted our shed door today - enjoying watching it dry hmm

The snooker's on if you want something more exciting, MawB

Riveting. Not.

Smileless2012 Mon 10-Aug-20 20:09:55

A lovely photo of a pretty girl.

MawB Mon 10-Aug-20 20:23:18

MawB

I painted our shed door today - enjoying watching it dry hmm

Wrong thread! Oops!

MawB Mon 10-Aug-20 20:27:09

I wonder if OP has unclutched his pearls yet?

Ngaio1 Mon 10-Aug-20 20:27:42

Lovely little girl. If she can cope with the name Harper, she will cope with anything!

merlotgran Mon 10-Aug-20 20:34:02

I like the name Harper - not sure about Seven though. grin

MaizieD Mon 10-Aug-20 20:34:28

I didn't think OP was clutching any pearls. He was just wondering about the wisdom of posting a picture of your child on the web. I know that people do it all the time, but sometimes those pictures get very badly misused; like, photoshopped into child porn, and it may come back to haunt the original for a long time...

I thought it was a nice natural looking picture of a pretty little girl and nothing to get upset about.

I, too, was thinking about JonJo Bennet; I saw the documentary abut the child 'beauty pageants in which she featured not long before she was murdered. It was vile stuff... Not at all comparable with this picture.

tinaf1 Mon 10-Aug-20 20:37:55

Looks lovely to me

MawB Mon 10-Aug-20 20:44:48

MaizieD, I’m afraid I think OP’s comment was rather more of a passive/aggressive “Well I don’t think x, y or z, but people on Instagram do”
Who the heck cares?
And as for making anybody think of JonJo whoever, if they are not alike, why should it remind you of anything so why draw the comparison?

merlotgran Mon 10-Aug-20 20:46:09

I'm sure the Beckhams are well aware of the dangers of putting photos of children on the internet.

Every photo I've seen of the Beckham clan shows a happy family with kids who look trendy but not trashy. I don't include Brooklyn in this comment because he's an adult.

I think Harper's photo is the nicest I've seen of a young girl, who is growing up in a celebrity family, in a long time.

MaizieD Mon 10-Aug-20 21:08:11

And as for making anybody think of JonJo whoever, if they are not alike, why should it remind you of anything so why draw the comparison?

I suppose it was because, without having actually seen the photo, but having inferred that there was disapproval of it (not here, but on instagram) I was wondering what to expect; whether it would be something akin to those poor over made up, over dressed 6 year olds in the beauty pageants.

I'm not sure why you seem to have taken exception to this. My thoughts are my own to do what I like with.

Have you told off DinaMoh too, for mentioning JJ Bennet?

MawB Mon 10-Aug-20 21:17:50

Have I “told anybody off” ?
If however you feel it applies to you, I do wonder why?

merlotgran Mon 10-Aug-20 21:41:52

MaizieD, Did you not think to click on the link and look at the photo before commenting and making a comparison?

MaizieD Mon 10-Aug-20 21:56:36

merlotgran

*MaizieD*, Did you not think to click on the link and look at the photo before commenting and making a comparison?

How is the way that I look at threads any of your business, merlotgran?

Iam64 Mon 10-Aug-20 22:00:32

lovely pic of a pretty 9 year old. Whatever criticisms people throw a the Beckhams, its so clear they love their children

MaizieD Mon 10-Aug-20 22:00:53

Oops, MawB, not merlotgran. Apologies to Merlot

To think that people complain about the Politics forum. I don't often venture off it, but it's just as dodgy everywhere else, it seems.[shock ]

Spangler Mon 10-Aug-20 22:08:54

"MaizieD Mon 10-Aug-20 22:00:53

To think that people complain about the Politics forum. I don't often venture off it, but it's just as dodgy everywhere else, it seems.[shock ]"

Yes that's true, but you can't say it's not lively. Being locked down can be very frustrating so what better way to relieve the boredom than to fire off a verbal Exocet and watch the fallout?

MawB Mon 10-Aug-20 22:09:08

Twasn’t me you quoted or who made any comment about how you look at threads^ MaisieD confused ?

Callistemon Mon 10-Aug-20 22:09:30

MawB

MawB

I painted our shed door today - enjoying watching it dry hmm

Wrong thread! Oops!

grin

Is it dry yet, is it dry yet?

Callistemon Mon 10-Aug-20 22:10:32

merlotgran

I like the name Harper - not sure about Seven though. grin

I know someone called Seven.
She is 40.

MawB Mon 10-Aug-20 22:10:40

Still watching Callistemon !

MissAdventure Mon 10-Aug-20 22:19:29

I can't see an alternative to having the odd pics online (maybe 10000s, I don't know) unless celebs do as Michael Jackson did with his children.

FlyingHandbag Mon 10-Aug-20 22:21:36

Also, if they didn't post photographs of her, no doubt the media would think they'd killed her. X

Chewbacca Mon 10-Aug-20 22:27:10

Also, if they didn't post photographs of her, no doubt the media would think they'd killed her. X

Whaaat? confused Is there a full moon tonight?

merlotgran Mon 10-Aug-20 22:29:56

Chewbacca

^Also, if they didn't post photographs of her, no doubt the media would think they'd killed her.^ X

Whaaat? confused Is there a full moon tonight?

grin grin