It is very sad that's for sure. I too feel sorry for Charles, none of us like it when our children metaphorically beat us, but week in week out in public for perseved misdemeanors going back decades must be hard to bear. Poor Queen and William too. It's a sorry mess. As you say WW only three short years ago Harry was so grateful to Charles for walking her up the aisle, the warm welcome given to Meghans mother , the cheers of the crowd, none of it now makes sense. I guess money is at the bottom of some of it now Charles and the British public quite rightly, are now not funding them. As for Iraq, Harry did two tours of Afghanistan, perhaps Iraq was considered just too dangerous, I doubt the refusal was done for spite.