rosie1959
That sounds tough Jetty especially as you work full time in accounts which should provide a decent salary but often doesn’t . Some employers can be very mean with salary for a qualified position.
As your son lives with you and earns more than you perhaps he should be able to give you more just while things are particularly expensive
I am actually on a good rate for the job i do, as i am not qualified - ive just done the job for years. i don't have far to travel, and i do get some nice perks (such as using a co car when mine was out of action), I had a conversation with my son yesterday and he has offered to pay more to pay towards the fuel bills. to be fair to him, he probably would give me more if i asked but saving is the whole point of living at home isnt it? Plus he has enough on his plate at the moment as his grandad isnt well and he helps him a lot. My husband died when the kids were little and so there is no second income coming into the house and he was an only child so his dads care has fallen on the kids shoulders, as he wont accept much help from me. At least i dont have to choose between heating and eating like many do- yet, im quite good at yellow sticker and savvy food shopping, and i cook from scratch as much as i can which i started when the kids were little, so its not as much of a shock to me it may be to some, and i dont qualify for UC.