Callistemon21
volver
vegansrock
So that fact that there are incidents in all parties makes this one ok? And we’ve all got to blame the woman involved too don’t forget
I think you'll find that blaming the woman started on this thread at 21:45 last night.
If you're meaning me (yet again) just say so.
You have a habit of twisting what say volver.
I'm not blaming the woman for this man's appalling behaviour - but would you have done that?
Not blame at all, just wondering why she was so naive?
Perhaps some others on here might have done the same, wrongly assuming the man concerned would have behaved as he should and left the house when asked.
Yes Call, I meant your post.
You tell us you would never have done that, but we don’t know anything about this woman. (Well, I don’t, at least) Was she young? Was she under the influence of drink or drugs? Was he her boss? Was she terrified having a powerful man in her house? Whatever the situation, what you say starts to paint a picture of a woman who isn’t like “us”, so its hardly surprising what happened to her, is it? Next step, somebody starts thinking “she deserved it, silly mare”. Next step, “poor man, what do you expect to have happened?” It’s a slippery slope and it seems that people can’t see that.
So please don't accuse me of "twisting what you say". Accept that maybe I, and others, can see nuances of which you are entirely unaware.