I wish people would watch the BBC clip which I linked to on the first page of this thread.
Geoff Norcott started talking about his book The British Bloke Decoded, about the foibles of blokeish behaviour (he describes blokes as a sub-species of men), e.g. why they are reluctant to use sun screen, don’t like going to see a doctor, forget birthdays, can’t remember the names of their nieces and nephews etc but then he went on to talk about more serious matters. He mentioned the controversy about appointing a Minister for Men and questioned why it triggers such heated arguments. He went on to say there are serious issues regarding men’s health that need to be discussed, male suicide, the biggest killer of men under 50 and the gender disparity in the Covid death numbers.
Norcott talks about male suicide. Santini Evans responds by saying that women do the laundry and school care. Norcott says that many more men than women died from Covid. Santini Evans responds that this is because women are less successful. (She did not elaborate on that so it's unclear what she meant.) Her comments were insensitive and fatuous. O’Grady shouts over Norcott, talking about sexual harrassment of women.
The expression I’m not going to shag you, or He/she isn’t going to shag you. has long been used in social media exchanges, specifically towards people who are deemed to be behaving obsequiously. It’s frequently been levelled at Nadine Dorries over her support for Boris Johnson. He still isn’t going to shag you, Nads.
Santini Evans uses it so often it’s become a trope, so this was Fox taking a brand of insult she uses hersel to another even nastier level. She’s been involved in X spats about Fox before so there’s history.
I am not excusing him. He’s a loathsome character. It’s become his modus operandii to switch the debate. It’s only a few weeks since the QT spat with Rachel Boyle where he turned her comment about press bias against Meghan Markle and the reasons for it into allegations of racial bias against white men. He’s an attention-seeking agent provocateur.
I’d much rather we did talk about the important issues that Geoff Norcott raised.