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Welby still can’t read the room

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RosiesMaw2 Tue 07-Jan-25 08:38:54

From this mornings DT

Disgraced Welby throws leaving party

It is understood that as many as 120 guests attended the palace over the course of the day to celebrate and bid farewell to the outgoing archbishop .
Earlier yesterday, former Church staff and current senior employees were seen arriving at Lambeth Palace, including William Nye, the secretary general to the Archbishops’ Council and General Synod. One of the Church’s most influential figures, Mr Nye, 58, has himself faced calls to resign, with some victims claiming the archbishop’s right-hand man mismanaged changes to national safeguarding processes
Critics argued the festivities exemplified the archbishop’s failure to gauge public sentiment, a lack of sensitivity previously evident in his valedictory House of Lords speech and the five-day wait before resigning after the Church’s handling of the Smyth abuse scandal was exposed. Only a month ago, he was forced to apologise for appearing to make light of the Church’s serious safeguarding failures in his Lords speech

Words fail me.

Calipso Tue 07-Jan-25 08:58:27

His judgement seems really off doesn't it? Looked at in the kindest light, I have wondered if he is developing some cognitive issues that are clouding his ability to recognise that this is not an appropriate way to behave? Though it doesn't excuse those advising him.

Aveline Tue 07-Jan-25 08:58:47

Oh dear. Well at least he's left. Obviously not apologetic at all.

OldFrill Tue 07-Jan-25 09:27:41

Stephen Cottrell, Archbishop of York has taken over most of Welby's duties. Cottrell is as guilty as Welby. I would not be in the least surprised if he becomes Archbishop of Canterbury. The police are apparently investigating whether there should be criminal charges brought in light of the Makin Report, but l think that'll be negative. Members of Church of England are mocking morality by not bringing their bishops to account.

Oreo Tue 07-Jan-25 09:35:07

A lot of these senior clergy seem to live in a different realm to anyone else, serenely drifting along to the beat of their own drum.

Luckygirl3 Tue 07-Jan-25 09:38:10

One could ignore the lot of them if it were not for the fact that young people have suffered and our constitution puts a gang of them in positions of power in our government system - it is a disgrace. That is not democracy.

lemsip Tue 07-Jan-25 10:30:44

all about self!

fancythat Tue 07-Jan-25 10:33:17

Oreo

A lot of these senior clergy seem to live in a different realm to anyone else, serenely drifting along to the beat of their own drum.

Absolutely.
And not just Church of England, sadly.

fancythat Tue 07-Jan-25 10:34:16

Which I think, personally, is all part of the demise of Christianity in the Country.

We need Leaders who are doing things Biblically correct.

fancythat Tue 07-Jan-25 10:35:46

I also question whether there is a wider issue.
Though this may not be the thread to discuss it.

Are people in general, promoted, precisely because they "dont read the room"?
That leaders nowadays are expected the guard the name of an organisation, regardless of anything and anyone else?

escaped Tue 07-Jan-25 10:36:38

Luckygirl3

One could ignore the lot of them if it were not for the fact that young people have suffered and our constitution puts a gang of them in positions of power in our government system - it is a disgrace. That is not democracy.

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Allira Tue 07-Jan-25 10:37:37

fancythat

I also question whether there is a wider issue.
Though this may not be the thread to discuss it.

Are people in general, promoted, precisely because they "dont read the room"?
That leaders nowadays are expected the guard the name of an organisation, regardless of anything and anyone else?

Yes.
The Post Office is another example.

pascal30 Tue 07-Jan-25 10:52:37

Aveline

Oh dear. Well at least he's left. Obviously not apologetic at all.

I didn't notice an apology in his leaving speech.. I don't think he is sorry or feels responsible for his lack of action..

Sarnia Tue 07-Jan-25 11:39:37

pascal30

Aveline

Oh dear. Well at least he's left. Obviously not apologetic at all.

I didn't notice an apology in his leaving speech.. I don't think he is sorry or feels responsible for his lack of action..

He didn't make an apology. Just treated it as Comedy Night at the local pub. Lots of chortling from the line of male Bishops sat behind him. The only one showing any sign of discomfort was the female Bishop of London who sat with her head in her hands.

Wyllow3 Tue 07-Jan-25 12:06:27

Under legislation announced by Yvette Cooper for a bill in the spring (amongst other measures) professionals who work with children will face criminal sanctions if they fail to report claims of child sexual abuse.

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/jan/06/yvette-cooper-says-she-will-force-professionals-to-report-child-sexual-abuse-claims

fancythat Tue 07-Jan-25 12:19:13

Good.

That should have been done always.

fancythat Tue 07-Jan-25 12:19:46

Though I think has been said before, he did report it.
He didnt follow it up enough.
If I have got that right.

ronib Tue 07-Jan-25 12:20:41

Oh well- some movement. Failure to report child abuse should eventually become the same as failure to report money laundering. Why has it taken so long is my question? I guess it’s all about societal values and money laundering is clearly of more importance than child safety. Gulp. Let’s hope that the structure for reporting and follow up is in place and robust.

Luckygirl3 Tue 07-Jan-25 12:21:10

fancythat

Which I think, personally, is all part of the demise of Christianity in the Country.

We need Leaders who are doing things Biblically correct.

Yep - they should be sending a plague or a flood - that would do it!

eazybee Tue 07-Jan-25 12:29:33

With regard to child abuse I think you will find that most people who work with children do report suspected abuse to a designated person, and there is a chain to follow, which is followed until it reaches the police, or social services, and it is then found 'there is no case to answer'.
The reasons for 'no case to answer' are what needs investigating.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Tue 07-Jan-25 12:33:28

Totally inappropriate for a bloke who had to resign before he was sacked. Such a mealy mouthed wet. Don’t bang the door on the way out.

Namsnanny Tue 07-Jan-25 12:34:37

What of the guests? They have chosen to attend, so apparently condone his and others behaviour.
We have to come to terms with the fact that these are not isolated incidents, involving individual damaged people.
A very strong ray of sunlight has to be shone on all the upper echelons of society to make any change.
I don't ignore other classes creeds or religions in this problem, but most do not have sufficient power to instigate change.
Paedophilia and closely link sexual inappropriate behaviour is now endemic in our society and there are small groups of people who wish to make it acceptable.
Its sickening that more people with power find themselves powerless to effect change, for a variety of reasons.

Namsnanny Tue 07-Jan-25 12:43:34

eazybee

With regard to child abuse I think you will find that most people who work with children do report suspected abuse to a designated person, and there is a chain to follow, which is followed until it reaches the police, or social services, and it is then found 'there is no case to answer'.
The reasons for 'no case to answer' are what needs investigating.

&The reasons for 'no case to answer' are what needs investigating.^

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Raj Miah (along with a few others) has a few amswers.

Jaberwok Tue 07-Jan-25 12:46:45

Actually I'm not that surprised as I think Archbishop Welby viewed his meteoric rise through the ranks of the Anglican Church as a career move which has, in his eyes, proved highly successful. No,wonder he's so chuffed, retiring a year early, substantial pension in situ, is it tax free like the P.M? who knows. His status unaffected, win win all round I'd say. As for humility, consciousness, even Christianity itself, I don't think ex Archbishop Welby even knows the meaning of the words. A man of God he certainly is not and never was. The next Archbishop? the mixture as before? who knows.

TerriBull Tue 07-Jan-25 12:53:43

It was only a short while ago JW was being lauded for his compassion and frequently calling out the previous government for their lack of it. hmm

He seems to have the sort of arrogance demonstrated by a couple of others, let me think, oh that would be David Cameron, and Boris Johnson to name but two. What was their old Alma Mater? oh I remember now Eton Community College, apparently it's a special school in the sense of how it imbues its pupils with a supreme sense of themselves.