Casdon
Itās personal interpretation as to whether somebody is sneering I think, because we all have different styles, and we rub some people up the wrong way because they perceive what we say is sneering at them when we think what we are doing is just putting our point of view over. Thereās no right or wrong on what people choose to do as long as itās within the law regarding second homes, just different opinions.
That's an interesting thought, Casdon, and I'm going to reply quickly on this thread only because a couple of posters seemed surprised by the sneering comment.
I have seen sneering and mocking about 2nd homes on GN because it has been directed at me. Early on when I joined, and spoke of my other homes, a poster, no longer on the site I believe, replied with comments about a silver spoon in the mouth, and crumbs from a rich man's table. The fact that 2 of the properties were inherited, (one in tragic circumstances), provided more red rags to the bulls, having a go about how hard they had worked in life, and so the ridiculing increased. I clearly remember it.
The problem was that the sneers then became cleverly couched across different threads, no one else might have noticed them, but they were obvious to me.
Yes, we can all have different opinions, I am more than happy to explain my position, but where something like a 2nd home is concerned, some posters definitely do show derision and sarcasm.