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Another stabbing by an immigrant. When do we wake up and smell the coffee?

(206 Posts)
Sago Tue 28-Oct-25 16:28:59

I am so sad to read of yet another stabbing resulting in the death of an innocent 49 year old man.

How can our government standby and allow this to happen again and again?

I feel sad, frightened and in total disbelief that this is happening on such a regular basis.

There will be a revolution and God help all the politicians.

Allira Wed 29-Oct-25 20:43:55

We can’t go it alone.
No we can't but it all seems very disjointed.

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Wed 29-Oct-25 20:45:11

And expensive.
For very little return.

Casdon Thu 30-Oct-25 10:12:27

FriedGreenTomatoes2

Tariffs would help. Maybe.
Or blocking visas.
Or denying overseas aid.
Or hey - how about a Rwanda type scheme?
Germany is looking at one …

Actually, this is an example of what will help. Negotiating return deals is far more productive than punitive measures..
news.sky.com/story/vietnamese-migrants-to-be-returned-under-new-deal-with-uk-13460147

Wyllow3 Thu 30-Oct-25 11:14:34

🥰 provocative again, huh?

Wyllow3 Thu 30-Oct-25 11:15:14

(that was to FGT as we regularly cross swords)

faringdon59 Thu 30-Oct-25 11:30:30

Definitely mass deportations and bring back the death penalty, this would reduce the prison population as well.
Lots of young men are flooding into our country with very different attitudes to towards society and especially the rights of women.
This nicey nicey attitude towards our immigration situation is not working.
The government is planning on building more towns! if you managed to house all of the people who are replacing our native population we are still going to be too stretched to provide healthcare, social care and even enough water!!
It's a numbers game and would still apply if we had green aliens arriving everyday.
Most of Europe is experiencing a rise in crimes against women being perpetrated by immigrant men as well.
Read the stats.

Wyllow3 Thu 30-Oct-25 12:01:00

Read the stats from other countries: same problems. Moaning as you do is imo avoiding this over all situation,

Plus the same old same old racist rant that implies that ALL incomers must be a Terrible Danger.

I had years with an abusive white husband, and just over 2 weeks ago was attacked at the end of an all white religious situation by a man who felt "Entitled".

There's good and bad in all cultures, faringdon.

Can we have a bit of perspective here please?

Allira Thu 30-Oct-25 12:07:10

Wyllow3

🥰 provocative again, huh?

That post certainly is!

Cossy Thu 30-Oct-25 12:14:00

Wyllow3

Read the stats from other countries: same problems. Moaning as you do is imo avoiding this over all situation,

Plus the same old same old racist rant that implies that ALL incomers must be a Terrible Danger.

I had years with an abusive white husband, and just over 2 weeks ago was attacked at the end of an all white religious situation by a man who felt "Entitled".

There's good and bad in all cultures, faringdon.

Can we have a bit of perspective here please?

👏👏👏👏👏

I would add that I have travelled, with a female friend, round Turkey and not once, not even once, were we ever “bothered” or “molested” by any men native to Turkey.

Galaxy Thu 30-Oct-25 12:15:38

Discussing on social media is doing something, it can't be the only thing, and needs to run alongside direct action, political action, etc but
certainly lately it has been the beginning of any useful movement.

Caleo Thu 30-Oct-25 12:17:27

Maybe start a thread on the causes of xenophobia.

(Google)
The fear of foreigners is called xenophobia, defined as the fear, dislike, or hatred of people perceived as being foreign or strange. This fear is often rooted in the perception of a conflict between an "in-group" and an "out-group" and can manifest as suspicion, hostility, or prejudice against individuals based on their nationality, culture, ethnicity, religion, or other differences.

Allira Thu 30-Oct-25 12:20:33

Cossy

Wyllow3

Read the stats from other countries: same problems. Moaning as you do is imo avoiding this over all situation,

Plus the same old same old racist rant that implies that ALL incomers must be a Terrible Danger.

I had years with an abusive white husband, and just over 2 weeks ago was attacked at the end of an all white religious situation by a man who felt "Entitled".

There's good and bad in all cultures, faringdon.

Can we have a bit of perspective here please?

👏👏👏👏👏

I would add that I have travelled, with a female friend, round Turkey and not once, not even once, were we ever “bothered” or “molested” by any men native to Turkey.

All anecdotes.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 30-Oct-25 12:23:12

You were lucky then Cossy my DD (barely in her teens) and I have been harassed in Turkey and Egypt 🤷‍♀️

GrannyGravy13 Thu 30-Oct-25 12:23:53

Yes yet another anecdote from me, but hey ho!

Allira Thu 30-Oct-25 12:25:46

All these anecdotes!

Actually, I quite enjoy them.

Casdon Thu 30-Oct-25 12:26:47

Galaxy

Discussing on social media is doing something, it can't be the only thing, and needs to run alongside direct action, political action, etc but
certainly lately it has been the beginning of any useful movement.

Isn’t that because it’s the biggest means of communication now? I can’t think how in the past it would have been possible to join in any movement in a similar way, you would have had to physically attend rallies, and lobby groups. It’s quite possible to get mass buy in for all sorts of things these days - look at the success of TikTok shop for example.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 30-Oct-25 12:27:06

Allira

All these anecdotes!

Actually, I quite enjoy them.

I aim to please 👍

Galaxy Thu 30-Oct-25 12:32:19

I agree casdon it has been a very useful tool for 'ordinary people' in many cases to organise. I am always wary, therefore, of people who want to exert further controls on it. But that is a different topic!

Sago Thu 30-Oct-25 13:05:08

Caleo

Maybe start a thread on the causes of xenophobia.

(Google)
The fear of foreigners is called xenophobia, defined as the fear, dislike, or hatred of people perceived as being foreign or strange. This fear is often rooted in the perception of a conflict between an "in-group" and an "out-group" and can manifest as suspicion, hostility, or prejudice against individuals based on their nationality, culture, ethnicity, religion, or other differences.

I do not have any fear of foreigners until they start behaving in a way that shows me they mean harm.

My father was a legal migrant to this country.
We have friends of all races, religions and political beliefs.

Our SIL was raised as a Muslim and our beautiful GC are mixed race.

I was accused by StoneofDestiny as being a Nazi, nothing could be further from the truth.

I simply believe many of the young men arriving illegally on our shores should not be here, they have no proof of who they are and many have come here to start a new life after committing crimes in their own country.

It is wrong and we are paying the price.

Iam64 Thu 30-Oct-25 13:21:21

Can I do an anecdote? We had one family holiday in what the brochure described as a middle class yachting village, similar to Abersoch. One of our daughters was 8 years old, very tall could at a push have been thought to be 11. She had very blond curly hair. She was harassed whenever we went out if the gated resort into the village. This despite her father never leaving her side. One afternoon I went into the pharmacy. I wore over the knee trousers, long sleeved cotton shirt. It was an unpleasant experience.
I’ve been to India twice, never had a priblem

Caleo Thu 30-Oct-25 13:22:42

Sago

Caleo

Maybe start a thread on the causes of xenophobia.

(Google)
The fear of foreigners is called xenophobia, defined as the fear, dislike, or hatred of people perceived as being foreign or strange. This fear is often rooted in the perception of a conflict between an "in-group" and an "out-group" and can manifest as suspicion, hostility, or prejudice against individuals based on their nationality, culture, ethnicity, religion, or other differences.

I do not have any fear of foreigners until they start behaving in a way that shows me they mean harm.

My father was a legal migrant to this country.
We have friends of all races, religions and political beliefs.

Our SIL was raised as a Muslim and our beautiful GC are mixed race.

I was accused by StoneofDestiny as being a Nazi, nothing could be further from the truth.

I simply believe many of the young men arriving illegally on our shores should not be here, they have no proof of who they are and many have come here to start a new life after committing crimes in their own country.

It is wrong and we are paying the price.

You clearly have personal experience. and it is very interesting.

However do you not see that anecdotal experience is insufficient and what is needed are properly harvested statistics which are interpreted as free from bias as possible.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 30-Oct-25 13:27:31

Anecdotal, life experiences how else do you suggest we contribute to a thread?

If we only quoted published papers GN would be as boring as watching paint dry…

Allira Thu 30-Oct-25 13:30:04

Caleo

Sago

Caleo

Maybe start a thread on the causes of xenophobia.

(Google)
The fear of foreigners is called xenophobia, defined as the fear, dislike, or hatred of people perceived as being foreign or strange. This fear is often rooted in the perception of a conflict between an "in-group" and an "out-group" and can manifest as suspicion, hostility, or prejudice against individuals based on their nationality, culture, ethnicity, religion, or other differences.

I do not have any fear of foreigners until they start behaving in a way that shows me they mean harm.

My father was a legal migrant to this country.
We have friends of all races, religions and political beliefs.

Our SIL was raised as a Muslim and our beautiful GC are mixed race.

I was accused by StoneofDestiny as being a Nazi, nothing could be further from the truth.

I simply believe many of the young men arriving illegally on our shores should not be here, they have no proof of who they are and many have come here to start a new life after committing crimes in their own country.

It is wrong and we are paying the price.

You clearly have personal experience. and it is very interesting.

However do you not see that anecdotal experience is insufficient and what is needed are properly harvested statistics which are interpreted as free from bias as possible.

what is needed are properly harvested statistics which are interpreted as free from bias as possible.
And the same should apply to whoever it was that accused another poster of being a Nazi without the proof of properly harvested statistics.

Part of my job was research and I did join Gransnet thinking it might be interesting to chat, to read the points of view of others.
I do remember one poster some time ago being constantly castigated for providing links shock

Casdon Thu 30-Oct-25 13:40:17

Probably me, I do love opinions which are supported by facts and evidence. Anecdotes are good too, they add life to threads, but what drives me mad is when people post wildly inaccurate information, when it takes seconds to check it out first.

I also think that posts which challenge from the beginning eg ‘Wake up and smell the coffee’ will immediately set people at each others throats. I’d love a more informed, less bullish Gransnet - but I imagine we all have very different visions.

Wyllow3 Thu 30-Oct-25 15:42:48

If you start off deliberately posting a provocative uninformative O/P then the result can be just more slanging matches. Not helpful really.

Maybe they should be in chat?