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"must have" "at all" and "yeh - no"

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JessM Sat 03-Mar-12 16:24:34

Feeling like grumpy gran today. Poor sleep can do that. So here I am in pedant's corner.
So instead of being grumpy with DH, who has been working hard all week... (and tempted though i might be after he took until 11 am to get up, then went off oh his bike for 2 hours then cleaned it for 1...)
Fed up with women being told x, y or z is a "must have" . Can't copy writers come up with some other phrase and give us a break?
Slightly irritated with the words "at all" being added onto the ends of so many sentences "Can I get you anything else at all" . Very common round here.
And have you noticed the number of times people say "yes-no" when answering a question? Where did that come from? Who started it because it is everywhere? No one seems to say yes anymore. they say yeahno instead.

Lilygran Sat 28-Apr-12 16:28:37

Annobel, I agree with you about 'grab'. And how about "Can I get...." as in " Can I get a cup of coffee?". Yes, you can. Do you want want one?

Anagram Sat 28-Apr-12 16:30:50

Or 'No you can't. That's my job!'

AlisonMA Sun 29-Apr-12 11:40:11

Lily that 'get' really annoys me too alongside the response 'I'm good' when you ask someone how they are!

goldengirl Sun 29-Apr-12 15:12:51

I'm enjoying this thread [not sewing - ha!]. It's making me laugh in spite of the weather. It reminds me of Shoots, Eats and Leaves by Lynn Truss. Our language is both wonderful and a minefield at the same time.

AlisonMA Sun 29-Apr-12 17:10:27

Good for Lynn Truss and John Huphrys too.

Lilygran Sun 29-Apr-12 17:24:46

A dear Irish friend was driven mad by the response, "I'm fine, thank you" to the question, "What can I get you?". He used to say, " I didn't ask about your health, I asked if you wanted a drink!" Perhaps the response to "I'm good" should be on the same lines?

AlisonMA Mon 30-Apr-12 12:21:43

Or What at?'

Anagram Mon 30-Apr-12 12:27:01

I've just realised that 'I'm good' could be seen as a logical interpretation of 'Not bad' when used in response to 'How are you?'. hmm

PRINTMISS Mon 30-Apr-12 15:40:24

I have had a 'window of opportunity' in which to sit and read these, and thoroughly enjoyed them all.

mrsmopp Thu 05-Jul-12 09:31:59

At the end of the day I am laying on the sofa and theres all this bling on the shopping channel and I'm like Wow!!! Yeah no definitely I gotta go for it know what I mean like?

whenim64 Thu 05-Jul-12 09:39:00

It's on trend so you gottahaveit, innit?

feetlebaum Thu 05-Jul-12 10:08:50

"I'm good" is an Americanism, born of their terror of adverbs...

mrsmopp Thu 05-Jul-12 11:43:39

Next salesperson who asks me "how are you today" (as if they cared!) I am ready. I'm going to tell them,
"Thank you thank you for asking me that my dear because I had a lot of trouble with my IBS and the doctor gave me little blue tablets well they were no good at all I've been back three times, I dont think doctors know anything these days do they, not like in the old days, they really cared then and would pop and see you if they were passing, but not now, oh no, oh yes my friends on different tablets, white ones shes got, and they work alright; ooh, I do like your shoes my dear, but of course I couldn't wear them, not with my bunions, I've got to go to the hospital for an x ray, they're going to operate on my bunions, twice they've cancelled me, its disgraceful I blame that David Cameron he doesnt know what he's doing, oh well mustnt keep you my dear but very nice of you to chat to me like this I don't get much chance of an intelligent conversation i live on my own you see and I dont get out much, not with my bunions, well I cant walk very far you see and also this IBS is dreadful well my dear I'll have to go because it's playing me up now so can you tell me where the Ladies room is oh thank you, see you next time bye bye............

Mamie Thu 05-Jul-12 12:01:32

Eats Shoots and Leaves, Goldengran. Otherwise it doesn't work as ambiguity!