rosie44, please don't give up on us. This site can be informative, helpful, supportive, humorous, fun and nostalgic. I have one huge reason to be very grateful to it and many less important ones. Admittedly, you have caught us at a time when I think many are argumentative and somewhat unkind but I put this down to the current stress going on in general. Furthermore, you have the option to withdraw the minute you find anything intolerable and dip in again whenever it suits you. I practise this regularly but genuinely find there are more pluses than minuses here. Hope you decide to hang on in there.