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Where's the Proof?!

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ferry23 Mon 28-Apr-25 19:08:25

I don't think I'm being pedantic but this is probably the best place.

I first started to get annoyed about this when I constantly heard it on cookery programmes, but it now seems to have filtered through to everyday life.

Why oh why do people keep saying

"The proof is in the pudding"?

No it isn't!!

"The proof of the pudding is in the eating"

Well, that's got that one off my chest grin

It annoys me almost as much as people applauding themselves.

Azalea99 Tue 29-Apr-25 15:34:50

Homely irritates me, even though it’s also defined as meaning ‘homelike’ it will always mean ‘plain’ to me

JamesandJon33 Tue 29-Apr-25 15:54:11

All that glitters is not gold. Wrong!!
All that glisters is not gold.

Nomadica Tue 29-Apr-25 16:44:16

I hate when people say it's like Groundhog day to mean they are getting nowhere... No if it's a day which seems like a repeat of others then it's like Groundhog Day THE MOVIE!!! It bears no resemblance to seeing if a North American animal can predict spring.

WelshPoppy Tue 29-Apr-25 17:53:30

Not food related but 'very unique' or 'extremely unique' gets me arguing with the tv. Something is either unique or it's not, it can't be very or extremely unique.

winterwhite Tue 29-Apr-25 18:03:32

But Silverbrooks, we are pedants on this thread!
In your example above - is 'meat pudding' a thing? Steak and kidney pudding maybe. And the 'Proof' of salmonella as cause of death was surely in the meat not the pie/pudding.

mabon1 Tue 29-Apr-25 18:20:17

Same here also people who say different "to" when it is correct to say different "from"again "effect" instead of "affect". I hear these on Radio 4 frequently, never mind the general public. I do not have a degree in English.

sandpiperessex Tue 29-Apr-25 22:01:36

Granmarderby
For free! No. It's free. Can't be for free.
Another thing that gets me going is when watching police programmes and some drama is demanding the offender be 'on the floor' when they are outside. Surely it is 'on the ground' 😳 🤔

Skodadoda Wed 30-Apr-25 06:35:36

Me too!

Skodadoda Wed 30-Apr-25 06:43:21

Granmarderby10

Yes I’ll give you that one ferry23 it is indeed annoying.

“For*free is another and when communal is pronounced as communial nuclear as nucular and aluminium as *alluminum! Just stop it now 😉

Here’s another mispronunciation, mischieveeous for mischievous 😫

Grammaretto Wed 30-Apr-25 07:18:29

Is very unique a bit like very pregnant? WelshPoppy

Nucular, (nuclear) joolery (jewelry), Hoo (who), cerviacal (cervical)
Mischeevious (mischievous)

One that may be correct but always
grates is when people use differentiate when distinguish will do nicely.

merlotgran Wed 30-Apr-25 08:08:34

A food related irritation of mine is TV chefs not knowing the difference between ‘marinade’ and ‘marinate.’

You make a marinade (noun) in order to marinate (verb) an ingredient.

I yell at the telly every time they announce, ‘The meat has finished marinading.’ 😡

SueDoku Wed 30-Apr-25 08:45:43

"It annoys me almost as much as people applauding themselves."

Oh yes - every time I see someone doing this, I hear my Mum's voice saying, "Only sea-lions clap themselves..!" in her most disapproving tone 😁

Oldnproud Wed 30-Apr-25 08:50:56

I can't get worked up by it, any more than I am by the many shortened versions of another long saying that includes the words pot, kettle and black.

But I do have my limits, and shout at the TV every time I hear a chef pronounce chorizo as choritso!

cc Wed 30-Apr-25 11:06:11

It always souds very smug to me.

cc Wed 30-Apr-25 11:07:38

And "pacific" being used instead of "specific" makes me cringe

cc Wed 30-Apr-25 11:09:02

Grammaretto

Is very unique a bit like very pregnant? WelshPoppy

Nucular, (nuclear) joolery (jewelry), Hoo (who), cerviacal (cervical)
Mischeevious (mischievous)

One that may be correct but always
grates is when people use differentiate when distinguish will do nicely.

Yes, "nuclular" is just so irritating and sometimes seems to be used by people who really should know the right way to say it. I'm sure that there are words that I say wrong too!

cc Wed 30-Apr-25 11:11:05

notnecessarilywiser

*people applauding themselves* oh yes, @ferry23, and also people who take a sip of their drink when they're the subject of the toast!

Yes, people applauding their introduction on a TV programme. It seems that everyone does it now.

Snowbelle Wed 30-Apr-25 11:46:44

You have all made my day !! I thought I was alone. “The proof is in the pudding” doesn’t make any sense at all because it’s a truncated (lazy) version of the correct sentence which does make sense. All of the above comments too… “for free” “can I get” “nucular” “pacific” “very unique” etc etc….🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I am not alone after all, I can now justify my inner rage. 😁 Thank you

Crossstitchfan Wed 30-Apr-25 12:06:18

Oldnproud

I can't get worked up by it, any more than I am by the many shortened versions of another long saying that includes the words pot, kettle and black.

But I do have my limits, and shout at the TV every time I hear a chef pronounce chorizo as choritso!

Perhaps you could enlighten those of us who are clearly not as well educated as you, just how one pronounces chorizo? ☹️

ferry23 Wed 30-Apr-25 12:11:05

Lol snowbelle - I was just about to say how glad I am to have started this thread - it is quite reassuring to know one is not alone!

Trivial but quite legitimate annoyances to my mind.

ferry23 Wed 30-Apr-25 12:21:42

Crossstitchfan

Oldnproud

I can't get worked up by it, any more than I am by the many shortened versions of another long saying that includes the words pot, kettle and black.

But I do have my limits, and shout at the TV every time I hear a chef pronounce chorizo as choritso!

Perhaps you could enlighten those of us who are clearly not as well educated as you, just how one pronounces chorizo? ☹️

It should be choreetho - that's the closest I can get in the written word - but you really need to hear a Spanish speaker saying it to get it absolutely correct.

We're pretty useless with Spanish - Mallorca, paella e.g.

But understandable if you're not familiar with Spanish.

Daddima Wed 30-Apr-25 12:48:33

Canarians would say Choreesso, Catalans something else , maybe Choreetso.

Crossstitchfan Tue 06-May-25 00:18:37

Thank you. Choreesso is very clumsy! Correct or not, I think I prefer the wrong pronunciation! Luckily, it’s not something I say very often., 😂

windmill1 Mon 19-May-25 02:05:20

"Money is the root of all evil" as opposed to "the love of money is the root of all evil."