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watermeadow Thu 08-Jun-17 19:25:58

I have reluctantly become Granny to daughter's new puppy. He's a 5 month old rescue from Cyprus. He can't yet be left alone as he hates his crate, barks and chews everything so he's staying with me for a lot of the time.
It's like having a toddler again (and I did 13 years of childcare for my daughters) he needs watching every moment he's awake and I can't get anything else done nor go out except to walk him and my own dog.
I'm rather resenting this but want to help my daughter until pup can go to work with her or be left at home sometimes. I feel mean for being tired and cross, pup has been here all day today.
Tell me it's my Granny duty, that he'll soon grow up and that my flowers will recover from his hooliganism. Big sigh!

VIOLETTE Sat 10-Jun-17 15:20:18

Gosh ! a dilemma ...did your D discuss this with you prior to her re homing the puppy ? It seems a bit irresponsible if not ....do you take it walkies with your own dog ? Maybe your D thought it would be something to fill your days if you don't go out much (except for dog walking ! Is there any form of obedience class in your area in the daytime )unless the puppy is too young .....never had a dog so don't know ...have looked after a few though, when owner on hols ! you could maybe make some new friends as well ! Other than that, there are people who do 'dog walking' (don't know what is costs !) who could maybe take the puppy off your hands for a while...if you find you are really struggling, you are going to have to tell your D ...difficult as it is ! flowers

Everthankful Sat 10-Jun-17 15:27:50

I'm doing granny duties with a 2 year old black lab and thoroughly enjoying his company, even though he pulled on the lead yesterday causing me to jerk, now I have damaged ligaments in my knee and have enforced rest and no more walkies for a while. He still like to climb on my lab for a cuddle though!

Everthankful Sat 10-Jun-17 15:28:31

'on my lap'

Everthankful Sat 10-Jun-17 15:30:56

I have also booked him in with the local dog walking service and with a doggy swimming class!

Monkey63 Sat 10-Jun-17 18:55:10

This is above and beyond the call of duty given your past help/dedication.

maddy629 Sun 11-Jun-17 07:30:30

I don't see this as your granny duty, tell your daughter to look for a dog sitter,they don't charge much, then he could be left in his own home.

blubber Sun 11-Jun-17 11:40:57

Put it in a dog cage when you are busy or tired

Mauriherb Sun 11-Jun-17 17:43:30

I'm really surprised that the rescue allowed her to take the pup as she's out all day, most rescues are quite strict about this. Well done for doing this, it is above and beyond , but hopefully it won't be for long

Helmsley444 Mon 12-Jun-17 11:02:44

Honestly our adult children do expect 2 much from us.
I have 2 adorable pugs .Ive had pugs since 2001.B4 that i had labs.But theres no way id do what your doing.Mind you i have a lot of health conditions.The pup will attach to you not your daughter as you are doing all the raising of it .Bet in the future your be the one left holding the pup .Any way apart from all that i think your wonderful and brave .Ive raised scores of dogs in my life and have loved them all .But it cones easier when they are your own

watermeadow Mon 12-Jun-17 20:53:09

Thanks for comments. This situation is only temporary, pup is already spending some time at work with daughter. He came from a good rescue and is well socialised. Even on the days when I had him for 8 hours he spent most of his time at home with his own family.
Yes he's hard work now but he'll grow up. I offered to help out, knowing it wouldn't be for long, underestimating how much time and attention pup would need, but he's learning fast and is adorable.

Anya Tue 13-Jun-17 08:13:38

Very positive watermelon

MawBroon Tue 13-Jun-17 10:30:12

I am delighted things have improved in such a short time watermelon it was less than a week ago you said how tired and cross you were feeling when the pup had been with you all day. How he needed constant watching, how destructive he was, barking all day etc.
That is the trouble with reading a post and assuming that what it said then I is still the case.
As a dog owner presumably you remembered that puppyhood is like babyhood, good days, bad days, but that things rarely stay the same for long.
I hope nobody has been put off caring for a rescue dog based on your initial experiences as it has not taken long for the situation to improve immeasurably.

missourisusan Sat 21-Oct-17 02:16:22

My Mom cooked the marrow bones and we would spread the marrow on white bread and we loved it! Brings back memories.

MawBroon Sat 21-Oct-17 09:45:22

confused ??

MawBroon Sat 21-Oct-17 09:46:33

I do apologise for calling you watermelon !!!

Bambam Sat 21-Oct-17 10:52:17

Your Grandpup, by my reckoning is 9months now. I think we forget what hard work it is with them for the first year. So I trust things are quite a bit better by now.
I am looking at my old girl (14) as I write. She was such a boisterous puppy, still had accidents if I went upstairs and I forgot to put her in the kitchen, (she would sit at the bottom looking up and wee, happy days grin) and when a bit older would scale walls and jump fences and get out of garden and come back covered in mud.grinLuckily she loved her den, under the stairs in the kitchen so I had somewhere she was happy to be left.
She is like my right hand. We toddle through life together very happily.
Well done to you and your daughter for helping this poor little soul.

MawBroon Sat 21-Oct-17 11:10:39

bambam ?????

Bambam Sat 21-Oct-17 13:30:51

Mawbroon, how could we not love them, when they love and adore us so much. Absolutely, unconditional, love!
I would return the lovely emoji's but don't have them. So smile!