There's a saying that's something like...dogs have owners, cats have human servants! Our two cats are totally different characters but each 'gets away with murder' (including that of the local wildlife) - our pretty fluffy girl has appalling table manners and often drops food on the floor to eat it, sits on everything she's not allowed to and hops into any box, bag, open drawer or cupboard to nap or just to be nosy first chance she gets - a proper lap cat who especially loves my better half. Our lad is an unsociable bugger that hates to be picked up or stroked, spends his nights with the fox family, uses the place like a B&B and will sleep on 'my' bit of the bed knowing I'll move over so as not to disturb him! My better half sneers at the things I do to keep the cats happy but I caught him a few summers back, on a hot day, male cat sprawled on the sofa and he'd rigged a fan up for him.