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Do l get another cat/s ?

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Blacktabby2 Tue 30-Jul-19 15:37:43

Hi. I lost my 19yr old cat back in March. In 30 years we have always had cats. I broke my heart when our neighbour kindly took her to the vets. We couldn't deal with it. Her ashes are back , buried in our garden with our other cats. We said NO MORE...we were so so sad. However after going into a cat charity shop the other day we saw photos of cats desperately needing homes. Oh dear. Tomorrow we are going to the cat sanctuary to look. I love cats so much but the hurt took a long time to get over. We are both retired (late 50s) and live in the country and not near a main road. Can l love another little pussycat? Not kittens...would adopt an older cat. I am so scared of it getting lost or whatever...obviously l would keep it in i initially...
In the last year both our mums have died and my best mate. Maybe we need something to bring joy into our homes? Perhaps l am answering my own question!! Thankyou for reading xxx

Flaxseed Thu 15-Aug-19 16:03:48

blacktabby Sooty and Sweep are adorable! They look very at home grin

SueDonim Fri 09-Aug-19 12:09:55

Sooty & Sweep are gorgeous! Are they related? I wish you and them many happy years together. smile

Fabulous50s Fri 09-Aug-19 08:44:26

You never forget about cats (or any pets) who have shared your life, and their demise is upsetting, but we always adopt again quickly so some little animal spends less time in a rescue and more being loved in their new home.
Sooty and Sweep look lovely.

seacliff Wed 07-Aug-19 22:50:48

Oh well done, Sooty and Sweep are very lucky cats, (and extremely beautiful). They look totally at home already. Wishing you a long and happy life together.

Blacktabby2 Tue 06-Aug-19 16:02:53

Thankyou everyone. smilexx

Nortsat46 Tue 06-Aug-19 10:23:48

Blacktabby2 what lovely news. They are fabulous cats.
We all knew it was inevitable as soon as you went to the Cat Sanctuary.
Wishing you all happy lives together.
Your second photo, which really shows the colour of their fur, makes it clear that you made a great choice for their names.

Willow500 Tue 06-Aug-19 07:23:05

That's lovely tabby2 - well done for giving them a new home. Lucky furries grin

Jane10 Tue 06-Aug-19 07:13:19

Wonderful. You won't regret it. Well done!

gransal Mon 05-Aug-19 19:09:32

Oh tabby 2 how adorable. I wish you all good times together.

Scribbles Mon 05-Aug-19 18:53:00

What lovely cats. I wish you all much contentment together.

matson Mon 05-Aug-19 17:36:06

Brilliant, they are gorgeous.

Blacktabby2 Mon 05-Aug-19 16:33:30

Another photo!!! Sooty and Sweep!!

Blacktabby2 Mon 05-Aug-19 15:37:54

Sorry for not replying eatlier everyone! Yes...l adopted Sooty and Sweep. Black and grey. 6 years old. I love them so much already. Thankyou for your comments...xxx

Jane10 Mon 05-Aug-19 13:16:17

Blacktabby2 I keep checking this thread to see if you took the feline plunge. Any update?

Francis Mon 05-Aug-19 10:50:55

hi there everyone.

So i was feeling the same about should i get a cat or not. My cat passed away and i just felt lost without him.

My granddaughter suggested a site called Trusted Housesitters where you register and apply for house sites to care for peoples animals. Its great and I think it helped me make my mind up.

Catterygirl Fri 02-Aug-19 18:03:05

Go for it. You are young enough and obviously love cats.

Tooyoungytobeagrandma Thu 01-Aug-19 23:13:02

I've done the "not getting another its too upsetting" & ended up with 6! Also got talked into a puppy then when he was couple years old just went "for a look" at local rescue & well along came dog number 2! Currently have 6 furry 4legs and love them to bits. Even end up with cats in our appartments when go on hols, think they know a mug when they see one. Hope a suitable match was made during your visit.

Evie64 Thu 01-Aug-19 23:05:32

You have to get at least one cat. I really feel that a home is not a home without a pet. I've had cats all my life, and despite them dying when they reach old age, which is so sad, I would never be without a cat. Go for it!

Framilode Thu 01-Aug-19 19:49:44

Do get another cat. You will never forget your other much loved pets but the love for a new one will come. As we all know there is no limit to love.

hazel93 Thu 01-Aug-19 18:34:47

Yep, answering your own question ! No way are you not coming home without a cat !
I had sworn never again, but...….
Our two, George and Harry, were dumped at the local charity about 6 weeks old and brothers from the note that was left. When I met them they were nearly a year old , could not touch them, they literally ran up the walls of their enclosure ! Not first choice family pets then ! Obviously took them home.
Fast forward 8 years although never going to be as if socialised from very young they are living the life of Riley - whoever he was - go for it I say !!!

GreenGran78 Thu 01-Aug-19 17:05:43

Megs36 I hope you outlive your lovely cat. If not, I hope that someone takes him in. I know that one of the cat charities will guarantee to find a good home, if necessary, if you give them a donation.
My next door neighbours are 'bereaved' regularly. They adopt elderly dogs whose owners have died, or gone into care. They have two young setters of their own, so they do two or three 'energetic' walks with them each day. They also do a couple of gentle walks with the 'old dodderers,' as I call them. They are a wonderful couple. Most of their time is spent caring for all of the dogs. They give them all lovely end-of-life care, which may only be a few months, and grieve for each one when it dies.

TM12 Thu 01-Aug-19 15:11:11

Please, please get another couple of cats. It will help mend your heart and give a much needed home to a furry friend who is desperately looking for affection. You sound like you have a lot of love to give so please do not delay. Losing a pet is tragic but time moves on and you are not eliminating the memory of your beloved pet. Kittens by the way are wonderful, so please do not rule them out, but I would suggest that you invest in a pair; we did after losing a beautiful and much loved cat,and our boys, Mori and Arty have been the tonic we needed and have breathed new live, fun and laughter into our house. Go for it!

gillyknits Thu 01-Aug-19 14:47:37

Here’s my rescue cat Harry! He likes looking at us upside down!

Chino Thu 01-Aug-19 14:28:45

I am 80 and 3 years ago adopted a 6 year old indoor cat- she is now 9 and gives us a lot of pleasure so I would say go for it

quizqueen Thu 01-Aug-19 14:23:46

I am on my 4th cat now and, hopefully, my last. I hope we will both see each other out but my family have said they would take her on. I still grieve for the others, especially the first one whom I nursed through diabetes for 3 years with twice daily insulin injections. My current cat is so loving and loves my company, just like the first one, so I am so happy I chose her from the litter.