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My dog and my new grandson

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Scentia Mon 23-Sept-19 19:54:40

I have a lovely little staffie. I was recently blessed with a beautiful grandson, he is nearly 5 months old now. Whenever he visits my dog is obsessed with him, she is always trying to lick him and I am unsure whether to pull her away from him or not. If I say ‘no’ she will not lick but then 5 minutes later she is trying again. I don’t want to make her jealous but I also don’t want her licking his face. Do you lot have any ideas how I handle this?

SilverDarlings12 Sat 28-Sept-19 00:48:53

Here we go again----Dogs before Children!!!

Hetty58 Sat 28-Sept-19 03:08:25

I love dogs but any dog is potentially dangerous, even with the best training. Why on Earth would you consider taking even the tiniest risk with a baby? Answer me that!

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2015/may/28/hospital-admissions-for-injuries-caused-by-dogs-up-76-over-past-10-years

Tedber Sat 28-Sept-19 08:31:31

This thread is turning more into a who hates/likes dogs which isn’t helping the OP one bit. Little Annie, your comments are out of order. About loving dangerous dirty dog or whatever nonsense you said!

Thousands of people bring babies into homes with dogs without any trouble whatsoever including me and my daughters! I had two, a German Shep and a Collie. Both adored my subsequent babies. My daughter has now got 2 dogs and 3 young children.

We do love our dogs!

There are very very few instances of dogs attacking! Let’s get it in proportion.

The only thing I would not let a dog do is lick a baby. And in very small babies, not leave them alone but this is common sense which the OP has! You are speaking like she has to choose who she loves most! No she doesn’t!!!

Babies, children have grown up with dogs for centuries. In fact my parents German Shep used to sleep under my cot! Now not suggesting this is acceptable but neither is the hysteria displayed here!

Don’t worry OP you will all enjoy a great life together.

Scentia Sat 28-Sept-19 11:02:34

Tedber
Thankyou very much for your post, I was beginning to think I was a ‘child of the devil’ !!

Luckygirl Sat 28-Sept-19 13:30:20

I really do not think it is about who hates/loves dogs. As I have said before there are many dog lovers who have stringent rules about keeping children safe in the presence of their dogs.

If your dog is close enough to be trying to lick the baby, then it is too close.; and their safety is compromised.

Take the advice of the dog lovers on this thread - there is plenty of it.

Dee1012 Sat 28-Sept-19 13:58:15

Tedbear, great post!
My father bred German Shepherds so from a baby, I and other children in the family were continually around dog's.
My son was also around dog's from birth...I have always had Rottweiler's
Isn't it simply a case of being sensible?
My dog's were/are well trained and never left alone with anyone.
Introductions with children are done slowly and carefully.
When my son was a baby...I allowed the dog I had at the time to be close in stages but again, the dog was kept under close control...he wasn't allowed to lick the baby however, although to be honest he wasn't that interested!
People are entitled to their opinion, mine is that dog's/all animals are wonderful and it's a fantastic thing for children to have appropriate relationships with them.
"Dangerous"? Some dog's sadly are but in the main, I don't think so.

Iam64 Sat 28-Sept-19 19:56:36

There is also evidence that children who grow up around Dogs have less allergies and less health problems
I’d add to that, that in homes where Dogs and children are well cared for, the children are more responsible.

Introduce ponies or horses into this discussion and I’d definitely say children learn responsibility. They’re also going to have a lot of fun but they will be lucky not to end up in A and E at some point, having fallen off, been kicked or bitten. Horses and ponies often go hand in hand with dogs but they’re even more risky ?

Eglantine21 Sat 28-Sept-19 20:31:30

I guess it’s a choice we all have to make, weighing the risk against the pleasure. Sending my sons off in their kayaks and later their cars knowing an accident could happen but that life lived to the full is risky!

Letting my MIL hoist my toddlers onto 17 hand hunters?

But I still think it’s not the OPs decision. And I still definitely think she needs to get control of her dog before she lets her near the baby! Her dog is not doing as she’s told!

Oldandverygrey Sun 29-Sept-19 16:36:28

I saw a small child being bitten by a dog, who according to its owner "wouldn't hurt a fly". She still carries the scars to this day.

patcaf Sun 29-Sept-19 16:37:20

We had similar problem. We kept the dog on a static lead when the children were babies. So he was always around them but could not lick them. Once they had grown out of the baby stage he was allowed off the lead but never left alone with them. He now has a healthy relationship with the children and never attempts to lick them.

HazelG Sun 29-Sept-19 16:57:57

My dogs were all taught not to lick anyone as I don't like it, under any circumstances. Whenever my grandchildren were around they were put on their beds, whenever the grandchildren were eating the dogs were put into another room.
So many of you posters don't seem to have read Scentia's post correctly and seem hell bent on panicking that the dog is going to eat the baby.
Responsible adults behave responsibly and that, in this case is to follow the very good advice already given by Tedber and NannaandGrampy who both seem to be way less reactionary than those of you who give the impression that you don't have or don't like dogs in general.

Iam64 Sun 29-Sept-19 20:23:44

There’s a piece in today’s news about an American pit bull. He died from snake bites after protecting the children x