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My Dear Old Girl has to go

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Buffybee Fri 26-Jun-20 08:32:39

I'm sat here with a lump in my throat, after feeding my two dogs. The old girl managed to totter out into the garden, her back legs are so stiff and weak now.
She's been such a good girl, not a bad bone in her body and loves all people and dogs, has never barked in the house or garden and been my constant companion for over sixteen years.
All my other dogs have had the vet come to my house but of course, not possible for her, at least my vet will let me be with her and she's such a sweetheart, she's never been frightened going to the vets and my Son is coming to help, so it should be fine.

Callistemon Fri 26-Jun-20 13:45:49

Oh dear, morethan for you too
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sodapop Fri 26-Jun-20 13:42:25

Buffybee & morethan2 You have all my sympathy, our pets mean so much to us don't they. I think during this time as well they have been even more of a comfort to us.

You have acted with love for your dogs but its so hard.

Bathsheba Fri 26-Jun-20 13:34:24

morethan ? for you as well ?

Bathsheba Fri 26-Jun-20 13:33:20

You poor thing, I am so so sorry to read this. It's one of the hardest decisions to make, but it's also the last act of kindness you can do for your beloved pet. Grief is the price we pay for love, and you have shared that love with your dear girl for 16 years. The happy memories will soon cloud the sorrow, but until they do, just take one day at a time and cry your heart out. We'll all be thinking of you as you do, offering our virtual shoulders to help you through ??

Smileless2012 Fri 26-Jun-20 13:24:24

Oh morethan sadflowers

morethan2 Fri 26-Jun-20 13:20:53

I’m really sorry, I’m still Gulping back tears for the dog we put down yesterday. They give us such love, companionships and devotion. I’m glad your son will be with you. I really do sympathise. It’s heartbreaking

glammanana Fri 26-Jun-20 13:18:19

Oh how awful for you such a sad time I have been through this a few times over the years it is heart breaking your little girl will know how much she is loved and how much you care for her keep her memories close to your heart she will never be far away.flowers

quizqueen Fri 26-Jun-20 13:16:22

A vet may consider coming to your garden if you ask them. Also, have you tried turmeric supplements, they are suppose to be excellent for arthritic joint pain for humans and animals. My daughter's dog had the same problems and she died peacefully at home a couple of weeks ago in her own time. The whole family was heartbroken but it was nicer she went that way.

Ellianne Fri 26-Jun-20 13:09:21

So sad for you and your family. Pets are such a big part of our lives.

Smileless2012 Fri 26-Jun-20 13:04:29

I'm so very sorry Buffybee my heart goes out to you. Please remember how much you love her and the happy life she's had.

I remember when the Queen mother died, the Queen said "grief is the price we pay for love", so true and just as true for the animal members of our familyflowers.

grandtanteJE65 Fri 26-Jun-20 13:00:56

You have all my sympathy, Buffybee.

Witzend Fri 26-Jun-20 12:59:28

I’m so sorry, Buffybee, I know how heartbreaking it is.
Dogs just don’t live long enough, do they? We pay such a heavy price for loving them, when it’s time for them to leave us. xx

Purplepixie Fri 26-Jun-20 11:37:38

I am sat here having a cry for you. My heart goes out to you and I am sending you love and hugs.

My beautiful tabby cat had to be euthanised last November. She was 20.5 years old and had had diabetes for 9 years. I used to inject her twice per day. She was beautiful natured and my little best friend and I still shed a tear for her now. Be kind to yourself at this horrible time. flowers

Rosalyn69 Fri 26-Jun-20 11:27:47

So sad for you and sad that the vet can’t come to the house.
And yes she’ll have a great time at the Rainbow Bridge while she waits for you.

Squiffy Fri 26-Jun-20 11:14:31

Oh Buffy I'm so sorry. It's such a hard decision to make, but you have obviously given her a lovely life and will have some wonderful happy times to look back on. flowers

tickingbird Fri 26-Jun-20 10:43:25

I’m so sad to hear this. It’s one of the downsides of having a dog unfortunately. It’s heartbreaking but console yourself with the knowledge she’s had a lovely life with you and you will be there at the end to wave her over the rainbow bridge x

ginny Fri 26-Jun-20 10:38:01

A sad time for you but a last loving act. She obviously has had a great life with you and you have wonderful memories. ?

Buffybee Fri 26-Jun-20 10:20:57

Thanks for your replies, it helps that you understand.
One of my Granddaughters came and sat on the lawn with her last night, she’s just text me, “you’re doing the right thing Gma”. Bless her!

allsortsofbags Fri 26-Jun-20 09:33:06

Such a sad time but the kindest thing we can do. flowers Don't forget to be gentle with yourself too.

mrsgreenfingers56 Fri 26-Jun-20 09:23:41

Very sorry to hear this, always so very sad when the time comes to let go of our pets but at least it can be done with dignity and is so peaceful. Have stayed with all my cats when the Vet has put them to sleep and in the end the kindest thing we can do.

Juliet27 Fri 26-Jun-20 09:19:42

I read that Buffy with tears in my eyes. I’ve had to part with several faithful canine friends over the years and it never gets any less heartbreaking. You and your other dog will need to provide each other with comfort. ?

Alexa Fri 26-Jun-20 09:19:10

Buffybee, I am crying a little too thinking of what you have to do. You are giving her a gentle death.

blondenana Fri 26-Jun-20 09:15:01

So sorry you have to go through this,it's heartbreaking,i know,i had to have my lovely girl put to sleep last August,
Still not got over it
I'm sure you will have lovely memories to remember her by
I look at my girls photo's every day on a cabinet facing where i sit,along with her ashes

Grandmafrench Fri 26-Jun-20 09:12:04

Heartbreaking Buffy. Hold tight to your wonderful memories which will flood in after the pain eases. Think what a fabulous life you’ve given her and how she’s loved you in return...and now you’re being the best and kindest Mum and letting her go so she doesn’t suffer. Bless you and your dear old girl. ?

merlotgran Fri 26-Jun-20 09:08:04

It's so hard saying goodbye isn't it?

You know you're doing the right thing, Buffybee but it doesn't make it any easier. Good that you won't be on your own.