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Dearly beloved, departed cat

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grandtanteJE65 Sun 22-Aug-21 12:59:30

It is nearly a week since you died, and we are recovering.

I am glad to say the young cat you found and trained as your successor is taking his new duties very seriously indeed. He apologises for not attending your burial. He was so horrified when he saw your dead body that he ran away and hid.

Papa apologises for not going to the vet with us, but both you and I knew he would funk that, didn't we?

He helped dig your grave and filled it in.

I'm not sure how these things work, but I hope you are now reunited with your brother and that your two toy mice I placced in your grave have been transformed into real, eternal mice you can chase around the Garden of Eden.

Did you really tell the youngster that one of his new duties is warming my bed? He does it well, considerately lying precisely where I place my bottom when I lie down.

No mice have been found in the cellar or attics and no tom cats have attempted to move in either.

Miss you! But as there is no time where you are now, only eternity, you won't notice how long it may be before we meet again.

Dear oet-lovers., you don't need to comment. Trold was 14 and enjoyed life until last Sunday, when he wasn't in pain, but where we knew what Monday would bring.

Aveline Sun 22-Aug-21 17:44:38

The first time I made that sad trip to the vets with dear old Podge I was just a schoolgirl. My Mum dropped us off. The very matter of fact vet gave him an injection and I was sent to the waiting room with Podge as he died in my arms. Looking back that was an awful thing to do. The people in the waiting room were very kind and obviously knew what was going on. I remember a kind workman sitting next to me produced a mouse from his pocket to try to cheer me up. Then the vet came back, said, 'Is he away?', and took poor Podge from my arms. I was dismissed. sad

TwiceAsNice Sun 22-Aug-21 18:36:45

Grandtante so sorry cats are so gorgeous and special. I dread anything happening to mine although Amie is relatively young yet and healthy.

Aveline poor you your vet wasn’t very compassionate at all. Pets burrow into our hearts and become part of the family. Love to all who have lost a beloved pet

3dognight Sun 22-Aug-21 19:05:10

That’s sad Averline, but at least he died in your arms flowers

grandtanteJE65 Mon 23-Aug-21 14:32:47

Thank you all for your sympathy.

What a truly awful experience Aveline.

My young vet (he could be my grandson easily age-wise) was so kind, taking all the necessary time and checking twice that Trold had died peacefully before stroking him and saying , " sleep well".

He didn't even mind me practically drowning his consulting-room in my tears.

We're feeling better now the first week is over.

TillyTrotter Mon 23-Aug-21 15:44:15

I also cried buckets while one of my beloved cats was PTS at the Vet’s.
I’m glad the raw heartbreak is subsiding a little grandtante
and will leave you with happy memories.
Aveline ? so sorry for your experience too.

Aveline Mon 23-Aug-21 16:14:04

Vets nowadays seem to be much more understanding and kind. It sounds like yours was grandtanteJE65. My more recent times when having beloved cats PTS have been much better handled. Last time the vet kindly let us out the back door as we were crying so much and didn't want to go out via the waiting room.
Sorry. This is Trold's thread. What is his protege's name?

grandtanteJE65 Tue 24-Aug-21 16:36:00

His protege has rather unfortunately in my opinion got used to being called "Sorte" which is the Danish equivalent of "Blackie" which admittedly has always been popular for black cats, rather like calling ginger cats Ginger.

I tried to change it feeling that these days it might cause offence, but he obstinately refuses to answer to anything else!

He obviously himself associates his name with the only people who have ever fed him, a neigbour whose own cat would not accept him, and me. So Sorte he is!

Aveline Tue 24-Aug-21 16:44:44

Aww puss. I'm glad he's got you and you've got him.