I have been on my own for quite a few years since my divorce. At first I had my youngest son still at home, so it was ok. But, once he left for University, it was a struggle, because the house was fairly isolated. So I sold up and downsized to a lovely little village, with houses all around. Most of them are night owls. There’s always one or the other of the houses lit up. I love it here. I don’t feel lonely at all. I don’t have a pet or a burglar alarm. My neighbour’s son has a motorcycle and goes out most evenings, I love the sound of that.
As a matter of fact, I’m so used to being on my own, I couldn’t share again. That’s why I choose to stay single. But then, we’re all different.
Yes, maybe a pet will help. Sorry, I don’t think I have been of any help .