Like Merlotgran since being widowed I have allowed my dog to come upstairs and sleep at the bottom of the bed. He isn’t a large dog (Border Terrier), he doesn’t cast much and lies on a throw. It’s reassuring just knowing he is there and he doesn’t cause any problems. It’s personal choice and depends on your circumstances and of course how big your dog is.
SueElla Braverman - she’s very clean!

