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unfaithful son in law

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grandmaagain Sun 04-Dec-11 15:43:49

Oh how my smugness has come back to bite me!
just found out that my darling son in law who I loved with all my heart is an unfaithful wretch who has broken my dear daughters heart 4 months after their son was born. she had a hellish pregnancy, birth and complications after and all the time he supported her and we loved him for it. They have been together for 11 years and gave the impression they were blisfully happy now we find out this was not the case at all and he has been unfaithful before this final incident and she had forgiven him and said nothing.
Dh and I have cried ourselves sick now we must do all we can to support her and our dear grandson we will not let this wicked man bring her down.
I have been very complacent in my posts on here thinking we were the lucky ones with no problems but if you can forgive me I would love some support!

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supernana Thu 15-Dec-11 13:40:00

grandmaagain ...and we're still here for you ((hugs))

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gow1 Fri 16-Dec-11 08:45:55

Hi GMA how are you doing? I doubt I'll be able to get on Gransnet for a couple of weeks, last day of term and I don't often get access away from work. I just wanted to say I will be thinking of you and hoping that you, like me, will be able to enjoy the good things about Christmas, making new memories for your GD, your daughter and the rest of your family. I know my great nephew (3) will brighten our day as it's impossible not to enjoy his company. I am determined not to do the "whys and what ifs" and champagne ( £12 in tecos this morning!!) will help. There is a long way to go before things feel normal again but you are on that road, so no looking back if you can help it. My wish for you is a peaceful Christmas and that 2012 will give you some happiness again. x

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Carol Fri 16-Dec-11 09:43:03

It's going to get busy after this next couple of days, but I will keep popping in to see how everyone is doing, and I'll be thinking of you all, especially those dear Gransnetters who have had such a rotten time lately.

(My little twin grandaughters, Polly and Alice, are very near to being able to go home from the SCBU and then it will be really busy, as they will still be just under 5 lbs and feeding frequently - it'll be all hands on deck, and I can't wait!)

Take care of yourselves grandmaagain and gow1. You deserve a peaceful Christmas thanks

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Annobel Fri 16-Dec-11 09:47:09

Sooo delighted for you Carol. Polly and Alice sound like feisty little girls. Hard work for all concerned but such a thrill for you. Looking forward to hearing all about them. thanks

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greenmossgiel Fri 16-Dec-11 09:56:38

Carol - how lovely!! Bless them! thanks

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grandmaagain Fri 16-Dec-11 10:04:05

carol
wonderful news thanks to all gransnetters thanks and best wishes for a happy christmas smile

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kittylester Fri 16-Dec-11 12:16:46

Brilliant Carol [flowers]

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marlou2020 Sun 04-Aug-24 20:55:32

My dearly loved son-in-law recently disclosed to my daughter that he had romantic feelings for a colleague with whom he works closely and no longer had feelings for her. She is devastated of course, as I am. I don’t know how to handle this. I saw him once since the disclosure and he does not look traumatized at all while she is destroyed.

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