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Falconbird Sat 27-Dec-14 11:58:57

This is my third Christmas without my husband and I was really thrown by the fact that I missed him much more than in previous years. I think the initial shock of his sudden passing is wearing off. I have three sons and three lovely grandchildren - but without "my bloke" it seemed very very empty and lonely this year.

sad

Gagagran Sun 26-Apr-15 07:37:47

I'm coming! I'll be a bit slow though as I'm coming on the Lady of Shalott's boat - can I get all the way to Tintagel by boat without having to brave the sea? It can be rough round that north Cornish coast.

annodomini Sun 26-Apr-15 07:48:42

Vodka jellies, anyone? I'll be polishing my broomstick. Last time I visited Tintagel, I was 8 months pregnant - over 44 years ago. This time it will be more fun. grin

Falconbird Sun 26-Apr-15 07:55:44

I googled Rick Wakeman and he's on You Tube. He made an album way back about the Court of King Arthur. The music is GREAT. Have a listen.

We could have it on big speakers. I'm a veggie teetotaler but I can still dance with the best of them. grin

Galen Sun 26-Apr-15 12:45:48

Ill bring my harp. I'm sure I can pluck a note on two that will fool people that people will know is medieval music.

Galen Sun 26-Apr-15 12:46:47

When shall we have it?
When we've decided I'll open a new thread for it.

annodomini Sun 26-Apr-15 13:26:57

You're a harpy, Galen? At Tintagel, with the waves beating on the rocks below, we need some powerful music, like Wagner, given the Arthurian context.

Galen Sun 26-Apr-15 14:05:41

I've been called worse than a harpy! My younger brother used to call my violin a vile din!

Tegan Sun 26-Apr-15 14:17:08

I did season work at the fish and chip shop in King Arthurs Car Park at Tintagel when I was 17. Lived in a garden shed at the back of the shop. I made great candy floss smile.

rubysong Sun 26-Apr-15 23:54:26

We should get Rick Wakeman to come to Tintagel and play live for us. I'm sure he will still have his pointy hat and flowing Merlin robe, and we will all look wonderful in our mediaeval robes.

bikergran Tue 28-Apr-15 11:25:11

Falcon was going to mention we hadn't seen you for a day or two but then was then laid up in bed so didn't get chance, so glad your back in the running smile
nannieroz I hope you "Parcel has arrived" smile it may be vacuum packed so don't be alarmed if it only looks small..when you open it just stand back! a sit expands, first things first is "pat on back" make sure it is working ok smile enjoy and always keep it at hand lol hand lol...dohhh

Now then ! I see in my absence , a party is about to be arranged hmm excitement or trepidation I wonder confused

Falcon yes of course I can pick you up, if you can squeeze between the hay bales (needed for bedding down overnight if we are staying) do you think you could balance the big round table on your head as well!! we need somewhere to gather and throw the roastchicken roastchicken thighs over our shoulders etc, or is that a Medieval theme? oh well whos cares..lol

Galen do you think we could keep the police out of it this time!! that poor young PC was never the same again, and had a terrible time explaining to his sergeant why he had pink furry handcuffs round his ankles!

Oh the "Vodka Jellies" mmm especially the Vimto ones,, sluuuurppp
yes let's put it on the main thread, more the merrier! will leave the invites up to you Galen we need a doorman and security keep all the riff raff undesirables out this time.
anyone got a lurcher/whippet/greyhound.
Chamber pots! we must bring them, (don't want a repeat of last time where all the ladies were crouched over the moat! shock talk about a full moonmoon! tut!

ok catch you soon everyone ta ta smile

loopylou Tue 28-Apr-15 19:05:45

I'll never visit Tintagel and see it in the same light again!
you lot are incredible grin
I take my hat off to all you indefatigable ladies!

Galen Tue 28-Apr-15 19:12:06

I'm working tomorrow (sober expression) I'll try to start a party thread on Friday after darling daughter and sprigs have returned home
(No access to iPad before- it gets collared)

bikergran Tue 28-Apr-15 20:06:38

Galen no rush! will give me time to get alcohol supplies grin
loopylou best get your R.S.P.V sent back quick! think tickets will be in big! demand shock now where did I put my inflatable friend "Randolph" hmm and! the puncture outfit, will probably need it once they have downed a few "Vodka Jellies" hmm last time they were doing the Conga with him! poor thing shock.

nannieroz111 Tue 28-Apr-15 20:10:56

My parcel did arrive biker and WOW! its nearly as big as me!!!! Have given myself several pats on the back today. I'm afraid you'll have to explain why we need the lurcher/whippet/greyhound. (I've led a very sheltered life) lol.

Vodka jelly? Mmmm yes please. wink

glassortwo Tue 28-Apr-15 20:14:29

biker is that you organising a party grin

bikergran Tue 28-Apr-15 20:37:54

glass no not me this time, Galen is the ringleader for a change grin

nannieroz I may be in the wrong era, I seem to have seen Lurcher dogs hanging round the tables, but I never did attend my History classes lol. I need to do some homework on the "Tingernel" thingy! lol, don't want to turn up in the wrong costume confused Oh yes!! nannieroz one has to also dress up grin

Best be off need to go As*a for Vodka whoops I mean Vimto of course grin

bikergran Tue 28-Apr-15 20:39:06

Oh and ! can someone bring matches this time...I'm not rubbing my knees together again to make a spark, nearly set myself on fire last time shock

loopylou Tue 28-Apr-15 20:39:39

You need some Wolfhounds, Falcons and rats me thinks.....

loopylou Tue 28-Apr-15 20:41:47

bikergran I've just choked and spluttered over my glass of wine!
Hope the stains come out of the armchair ....... grin

You are wicked!!

nannieroz111 Tue 28-Apr-15 20:46:11

Yeah you're right loopylou...... biker is wicked. I nearly fell off my perch laughing at the vision of knees combusting (is that a word?)

bikergran Tue 28-Apr-15 20:47:51

loopy you mean the "Bar" is open!! hmm no one told me.....

................................................................>>>>>>>>>>walks off to the bar............................................>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
,,,,,,,,<<<<<<<<< walks back from the bar..wine wine could only carry two grin

ahhh yes Wolfhounds...rats, think I have rubber ones in the loft, Falcons may be slightly more hard to come by..

bikergran Tue 28-Apr-15 20:51:12

nannieroz you too! will have a " role " not sure what but we will find something suitable grin ...........looking in book under "roles" for newbies hmm you too loopy are you good with elastic bands and sticky backed plastic ? confused

loopylou Tue 28-Apr-15 20:51:48

I can provide an archery bow & arrows (dd won't notice I've 'borrowed' them) but not got foggiest how to use, perhaps Galen can advise

nannieroz111 Tue 28-Apr-15 20:52:33

I got so immersed in the alcohol vimto and inflatable friends, I completely forgot it was a themed party.

I know where we can find at least one Falcon(bird)!!!!!

loopylou Tue 28-Apr-15 20:53:31

Plenty of rubber bands out on the pavement discarded by the ruddy postman, yep! reckon I could fashion something shock