Continued support and fun aspects too of rebuilding lives after estrangement can't believe 4 years and we still here to offer help, friendship and support.

I am not going to be so rude as to name names , that in my book is unkind and hurtful but one comment by a very regular poster brought a smile to my lips as it seems so unlikely a situation, cryptic I know but necessarily so.

Yogagirl. I agree with annsixty. Asking whether Bibbity's husband is a manager at McDonalds is catty and spiteful. Nowadays tattoed people are in all walks of life.

Hadn't read annsixty's last post when I wrote above. Refers to her previous post

If Yoga is going to be so rude and petty. Then yes I will match her.
Far to long people have been tiptoeing around certain members and allowing them to say and do things that are quiet frankily disgusting.
Sometimes I can see perfectly well why people would choose not to spend time in such company.

Bibibty agree with eddiecat can only feel sympahty for such a spiteful person as yourself,

Lucklegs said it all in her very good post without resorting to personal insult or nastiness,

I am really busy today so apologies not read all posts
However I seem to have opened floodgates ref tattoos,
I have an acquacsie tutor covered in them and she is lovley
My point being it was Nothing to do with the tattoos it was the rudeness of shop manager.

Can this now be put to bed

Bibbity. Your comment re your amazing weekend was really, really, spiteful, mean and nasty. Did you actually mean to post that on a SUPPORT thread? Surely that remark does not represent your personality? It really hurt me to read that post and yet I am not estranged from my GC. How could you be so mean? It beggars belief.

Every single time you appear on this Support thread it seems you only have contemptuous things to say.

I hope, during the course of your weekend, you have just a small moment to self-reflect on what you posted. If you think it was 'OK' to say those things...may God forgive you. You are to be pitied for your contempt which far outweighs that shown to you by other posters on this thread.

'may God forgive you'

I'm a strict atheist so I don't have any worries at all there.

I started looking at this thread a couple of months ago looking for support when we lost contact with GC.
I was surprised at some of the posts and only 'pop in' now and again to see how things are. It hasn't improved

Ninathena there are lovley ladies on here please don't judge bynbrief occasions when some horrid unkind posts appear but people not typical of our thread.

it really worries me that people who desperately need support are being put off this thread because of the nastiness that crops up from time to time. Ninathenana - if you are feeling low and need to off-load - come back to us - we won`t let you down

Obviously, Bibbity and a thoroughly unpleasant lady to boot....

Sorry Bibbity is it Burger King then? and why are you on here? is it just to let us know about your mum enjoying her GC, on a support page for Grandmothers cut out of the lives of theirs.

Wrong again. But considering he brought £40K home last year does it matter?

I was going to ask if your son matches that Yoga as I believe they're around the same age.
But you probably wouldn't know would you?

Can anyone figure out what Annsixty is going on about?

If you are such a happy person'Bibbity*, and enjoying your weekend, why would
you even feel it necessary to post such unpleasant comments?

Vis a vis being an atheist - nevertheless, your time will come. They call it karma I believe.

Maybe you are trying to convince yourself how happy you are, perhaps! Why do you feel the need to prove something? Maybe you are estranged from a family member and your mean remarks are deflecting ylir own guilt.

Here ends my psychoanalysis!!

Just saying...

I can't categorically confirm I am not estranged from anyone.

Also don't believe in Karama.
Can I ask why you're not pulling up Yoga on her unpleasant comments?

Bloody autocorrect.
Was there a petition to have an edit button?
I am NOT estranged at all from anyone.

Bibbity If you are staying with your mum and having an amazing time, watching her with her GC, and you are unimaginable happy, why in Gods name are you on here all the time, on a subject that doesn't effect you in any way?

Janeainsworth has anyone ever told you you talk a lot of codswallop?

I am actually pleased you don't. It was for my amusement alone. Just wanted to say I found a comment unbelievable.
Don't worry about it.

I'm not with my mum now. I'm at home trying to organise a 3 year olds wardrobe (and finding distractions)

Didn't answer my question though. What high flying, multi billion pound job does your son do that allows you to judge my husband.

Bibbity - why are you on Gransnet?

(and didn`t it spoil your Mum`s amazing day when she noticed you were checking the internet all of the time?)

Well Bibbity where I live by the sea, you could just about buy a seafront Hut for 40K

My Son is a mathematical scientist working in Russia at the moment, so 40K per month maybe nearer his salary.

Because...it's the internet and I can.

No she brought me cake and tea and let me chill out and have a child free morning. Then we went for dinner.

And I bet he just loves updating you on his amazing travels, the stories he must tell!

Because I think you absolutely deserve them. You only come on here to wind up estranged posters - pretty obvious.

And nothing you say will convince me (or probably anyone else) that you are a happy person. You can't hide your bitterness - it's jumps out in your comments.

Happy people don't feel the need to put others - who are less fortunate than themselves, and clearly in pain - down, seriously.

And what's to brag about taking home 40k????

Going out for the evening now - do hope the detractors get fed up and buggar off go away by tomorrow

I'm not bragging. Just saying I'm explecptionally proud of my hard working husband. And I'd be equally as proud if he worked in McDonlads, BK. picking up rubbish. Because he supports his family and that is all that matters.

I really couldn't give a flying fudge what you believe. You're a name on the internet. That's it. I know I'm happy (not right now the laundry isn't putting itself away) but I will comment when I see such bitterness and discrimination against others. This started because of the disgusting way posters were taking about tattoos.
That's a general topic on a public Internet forum.
So if you want me to stop posting. Make this forum private.