You will all have to bear with me, as this is a long tale.
About this time last year I told the sad tale of my dearest friend of nearly 30 years (we used to be next-door neighbours, but who lives 300 miles way now to be near her daughter) who very suddenly "dropped" me, after a misunderstanding regarding a little birthday present she had sent me, when we had previously seriously agreed NEVER to buy presents again ... let's face it, at nearly 80 there isn't much that either of us needs, and we were both (I thought) relieved to stop buying silly things for each other. I was heartbroken that she cut me off without a single word, refused to answer phone calls, and in fact threw back at the Florist the gorgeous bouquet of flowers I had sent her. (The Florist was very upset, as I discovered from Interflora, and had left in tears).
I myself nearly had a complete breakdown - I even got my husband to try to intercede - but with no remedy.
Now this friendship was FAR MORE than just a casual neighbourly item - we were inseparable, and I admit, I did "spoil" her throughout our friendship, as I am quite comfortable, but she had very little. But we were sisters - in fact, we always said that we were the sisters that neither of us had. She spent four wonderful holidays at our "holiday-home" in France over the years, all paid for, flights etc, by my husband and me. I often "spoiled her" with nice jewellery and other gifts, just because I loved her, and knew that she liked nice things. I am Leo subject, and Leos love to give things to the people they love, never wanting or expecting anything in return.
When I posted my tale of woe last year I received many, many very hurtful and negative responses from Gransnetters, and this also broke my heart. I honestly thought that I had done no wrong - and for that reason I have not posted on Gransnet again - I was so devastated by all the nasty comments I received.
So I am risking a lot by writing this today - as it is almost one year to the day when she cut me off - should I attempt to contact my ex-friend again? Knowing that I might receive an even more hurtful rejection? This all happened 2 days before my birthday - and every year from now on I am going to dread my Birthday coming round.
Sorry for this being so long - and thank you, if you have the patience to read all this.
Please help - I cannot get this out of my head, and I cry every time I remember what good times we used to have as friends.
What do you think would go well with coasters like this?