Some basic background info :
I cut my mother in law out of my life in order to protect my own mental health.
I am not happy if my children go to see her, but I didn't stop it from happening.
I do actively encourage my husband to call and see his mother. Unfortunately, he isn't keen.
So to many of you, I may be the horrible daughter in law. I understand there are different perspectives. I just want to ask, if
A mother in law wants to spend a lot of time with Son, Daughter in law and grandchildren, surely the son's family must have been a pleasure to be with;
However, the son and the DIL don't want the mother in law to be around 'too much', it only means that the MIL isn't a good companion, right?
What do people think?
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