My son's partner is very controlling and manipulative, she also seems to hate me for some reason. I have always been pleasant to her, despite what she does, but she seems to be getting worse now since having a baby 6 months ago.
We had a family get together last weekend, she refused to give me a lift home or even to train station, despite saying she would, so all day I was worrying about getting back home and spoilt the day for me.
My son looks very on edge when he is with her, treading on eggshells, with her, and frightened of upsetting her. He hardly ever comes round now and I don't see my granddaughter much, only if I go over to theres on train.
She also likes to make a big fuss of my ex husband's partner when we are at family events, but I know she is doing it to try and upset me, as she says things like we will have to come over to see you with grandchild, or go out for a meal. I'm over my ex but could do without her saying things in front of me.
I am worried about my son, he looks unhappy when I see him and his partner is constantly picking faults with anything he does, and he does a lot as she just sits around the house all day, from what I can see. It's not nice to see him like this.
I'm unsure what to do, I don't want to interfere, but feel I need to speak with my son on his own, but that's not going to be easy as she is always there now.
Any advice would be welcome. Sorry about the ramble message, but this has been on my mind since the weekend and I have no one to talk about it as I'm single.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!