Sooo here’s a thing......one of my lovely friends...bereaved nearly 4 years ago has recently met a chap and has now run this past me . He had a wife ....been divorced several years now, the wife ran off with another chap, left that chap , then moved back in with said friends new chap ...supposedly fir 2 weeks to get herself sorted, but ended up and stayed living at his house for 2years. They even had holiday together. Then she met another chap and left said friends new chap.
Sooo now my friend is with this chap and he is still in touch with his ex. My friend says ex wife clothes still in house and stuff about the bathroom! This is now causing problems fir my friend. She has asked for my opinion and I have chatted it thru with her .....and then mentioned Gransnet and said I would throw it out to all to see what advice comes along.
My friend is a very gentle lady .........and likes this new chap very much but has taken to sneakily looking at new chaos phone as ex texts him......and says it’s causing all sorts of problems. The ex had a young son when she got wth this chap ..that’s seems all ok from what I understand ...there is also a granddaughter. That all seems fine. It’s the clothes and stuff still hanging about that seems odd to her . She says that she thinks this woman seems to need him when things go wrong and she’s wondering if she should make him pack up the items and get ex to collect them or just to maybe accept that this is how it’s to be .
Will await all advice.
Thanks
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!