Hi
My DH has 4 small GC, 2 of whom have recently moved back into the area 2 years ago with their father (aged 3 and 4).
As my DH is retired he has been helping out a lot with looking after these GC (one at a time usually) as I work full time i have not had to do too much of the childcare fortunately.......I say fortunately as honestly small children bore me to tears.
Step-son was a single parent for about 18 months and i accepted he needed the help. However about 6 months he met a new partner who moved with him almost straight away (she has a small child too) she is also a stay at home mother for all 3 children (both of their ex-partners are no longer on the scene) I thought that with his new family unit we would not be getting the children so much but it seems we (okay mostly DH) still seem to get one or other every other weekend and sometimes during the week.
I suspect this will sound extremely childish on my part but after i have worked all week i would really love the weekend to ourselves and not have the constant demands of small children. This is starting to cause some resentment on my part.
I have spoken to my DH about this and he says that if his son needs help he will provide it but with their new 'mother' at home i can't see why we should have the kids so much. DH says if i don't like it i should just go out and do something on my own/with friends which is fine BUT sometimes i'd just like to sit in the house and watch a film or potter about without constant interruptions.
Anyway, i realise i will probably get a kick up the @rse from some of you and maybe i need it! But i would appreciate your opinions on the matter if only to give me a reality check.
Good Morning Tuesday 23rd April St Georges Day