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The Duchess of Sussex and her father

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DillytheGardener Sun 10-Feb-19 16:01:50

Read the latest in sad state of affairs between Meghan and her father today with sadness.

Her letter seemed so reasonable and made good points, her father has behaved in such an abominable way towards his daughter. Rather than pulling his head in after the stupid staged shots he was paid for, apologised and kept quiet till it all blew over he's dug his heels in and embarrassed her time and time again.

I'm not surprised her friends came out in support, even if she did direct it. Has the press no memory of how poor Diana and Fergie were berated and bullied? The idiot rags like the Daily Mail and the Sun are really going for it to make their money. I feel so sorry for her and hope it doesn't affect her pregnancy with all the stress.

I don't understand why the public seem to want her to reconcile with him. He obviously can't be trusted and she's wise to stay well clear, that side of the family is unhinged. Half brother with a DUI and domestic abuse, the other sister seems disturbed, her own daughter cut her off for goodness sakes and by the looks of it for good reason.

Harry was always my favourite, he's a bit older than my two children, but I always felt for him after Diana died. He was such a little mite behind the coffin.

PECS Mon 11-Feb-19 11:41:01

The media drag it up because 'vultures' like to pick over the bones and that sells papers/gets viewers!

annodomini Mon 11-Feb-19 11:42:17

Dirty linen has no place here...I hope.

sylviann Mon 11-Feb-19 11:47:08

The family business between Meghan and her father should be kept between themselves

Mapleleaf Mon 11-Feb-19 11:54:52

Well said Oldwoman70. Not so sure that everyone takes it with a pinch of salt, though, sadly. hmm

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 11:55:57

May have been so different if her parents families had been invited to the wedding

jaylucy Mon 11-Feb-19 12:00:55

Well said!
No one knows what goes on behind closed doors (as the old song used to say!!!) There must have been some reason Meghan was estranged from her father but not up to anyone, including "friends" to speculate why.
Time that all the media pulled their head in and let it rest once and for all .

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 12:10:48

Naturally the press would find such a society wedding strange with the bride not inviting uncles, aunts, cousins etc , a quiet wedding yes , but hundreds of guests and only one member of the brides family invited

Ngaio1 Mon 11-Feb-19 12:14:41

This confounded woman has caused nothing but upset since she arrived on the Royal scene, Poor besotted Harry! Once she has the child I doubt she will be long on the scene.

Aepgirl Mon 11-Feb-19 12:19:29

Well said Day6 (but I would suggest that you check for typos before posting!). Meghan will need the support of the royal family and the public in the years to come, and should resist publicising her disfunctional family. Her mother is dignified and the person Meghan should be closest to.

Johno Mon 11-Feb-19 12:20:18

I can never get excited about multi-millionaires with servants having a tiz with their families. My daughter struggles to pay the electric bill despite grafting hard and raising children.

PECS Mon 11-Feb-19 12:22:12

Wow! Ngaio1 there's a judgement!
I know nothing about her other than what I gleaned from the report of the wedding as that was reported in the paper I buy and was also on TV. Any previous or subsequent gossip has passed me by except when I see it on GN!

pinkquartz Mon 11-Feb-19 12:41:31

I wholeheartedly agree with PaddyAnn Harry does not need our sympathy or pity. He has a life free of all normal concerns like money, bills, commuting, student debt etc. I also have known children losing both parents at a young age which is unbearably sad.
Why the new Duchess cannot resolve this family matter without making all this public is a mystery to me.

Susan56 Mon 11-Feb-19 12:44:36

I agree with eazybee.It is all very unpleasant and a pregnant woman should be off limits.I find her father and sister unbelievable,if he cared as much as he says he does,he would be trying to reconnect with her privately.Horrible situation all round.

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 12:47:47

Apologies to the poster who said Harry was her favourite because he was small walking behind his mothers coffin, yes it was very sad but I don’t understand how this made him a favourite.

Harry irritates me .

Nonnatimesfour Mon 11-Feb-19 12:55:48

What a shame her father couldn't have kept the letter to himself, that was unkind of him.

Anniebach Mon 11-Feb-19 13:01:58

But not unkind of her friends to speak to the press , which caused him to defend himself, I don’t agree with him publishing the letter but can understand him wanting to
Defend himself. He has kept silent about the letter through his many interviews , perhaps being accused of lying by her friends was just too much

PECS Mon 11-Feb-19 13:09:45

"for the love of money is the root of all evil which while some coveted after, they have erred from faith and pierced themselves through many sorrows". Good old Timothy knew what he was talking about!
Having now read a few background articles from various sources it does seem that some are on a mission to get a piece of the Sussex pie!

Susan56 Mon 11-Feb-19 13:23:59

Couldn’t agree more PECS

lilihu Mon 11-Feb-19 14:19:30

Always puzzled as why William’s Wife is constantly referred to as “Kate”
I read (eons ago) that she was Catherine, sometimes called Cathy by family/ friends and had never been called or known as “Kate”.
Did it all stem from that tabloid headline about “Waitie Katie” ?
Like others on here, I feel that the levels of dislike of people they know nothing about are mystifying. I’m assuming none of us personally know members of the RF and the truth about these often horrid, tabloid rubbish stories.

GoldenAge Mon 11-Feb-19 14:33:13

Frankly, we have far better things to concern ourselves with like the future of our country in or out of Europe, the starving children in Yemen because we are still arming countries overseas and allowing them to oppress others - what in heaven's name are we doing even concerning ourselves with an overprivileged set of human beings and then feeling sorry for things that happen to them when they themselves glory in their celebrity and manipulate the press to suit their ends. Get real people, if you have a concern for people, do some voluntary work with those on the streets. I won't apologise if I offend - I can't offend one iota as much as those white-toothed plastic celebs offend me when they open their mouths and can't string two words together sensibly yet are earning megabucks because of undiscerning audiences who wouldn't think twice about walking past a homeless person and looking in disdain.

Sandym8 Mon 11-Feb-19 15:17:07

I heard recently that Megan wanted a certain thing for her wedding but was given something else and Prince harry complained and told the staff “ what Megan wants Megan gets” and they were told rightly so told off and told you get what you are given

Sandym8 Mon 11-Feb-19 15:19:09

Iam not sure but I think it was over a tiara

sazz1 Mon 11-Feb-19 16:03:40

I just wish we didn't have a royal family. They are a huge drain on our country and sponge off of the taxpayers. Think it's sad about Megan and her family but I guess none are good enough to visit or socialise with now she's with a 'prince'

dizzidi44 Mon 11-Feb-19 16:39:24

Do you all actually believe that you would be able to see a letter written by her to her father, I don't think so .tut

lovebeigecardigans1955 Mon 11-Feb-19 17:07:12

Many of us have unhappy families but at least we aren't well known and don't have to endure embarrassing publicity because of it.