Neighbors take us as suckers!!!!!

I don't think people are afraid to say no. I think the vast majority just want to be helpful and friendly and most of the time that is appreciated - just occasionally you may come across someone who takes advantage so next time they ask you say no.

Now I know why Pampas Grass is a banned plant in Portugal. Too rampant.

Not sure I'd want it back!

I would move

Se had lots of neighbours and friends constantly borrowing things from my DH's extensive range of tools etc. Very rarely did they come back without him asking for them so when they came to borrow something he started writing who borrowed what and how long they needed it for - with a maximum time stipulated - on a white board. They were told no return by due date there would be no further borrowing. A few made comments such as "don't you trust me?" but things did come back and on time or before. Borrowers were very keen to see their name crossed off the board.