My stepson still lives at home except from Friday to Sunday evening, (at his fiancée’s in a town 200 miles away) I do NOT go into his room at all it’s absolutely gross!!! His bed has only been changed once since Christmas, he occasionally puts some clothes into the washing machine and I hang them to dry, I refuse to iron them, at 73, I shouldn’t have to iron a 43 year old clothes, never did it for any of my own from them leaving school. Just after Christmas I took some clothes up to his room and there were cobwebs going from the wall to his rather large bedside cabinet! 4 years ago his fiancée was coming over and my younger son helped me to clean his room, it took us 2 days! He has really dirty habits too, NEVER gets a shower, sometimes, while playing his video games he even uses a bottle to pee in! Hence the reason I told my husband I’ll never clean his room again! He didn’t believe me until I brought a bottle of ‘water’ down for him to see! The amazing thing is he’s an MD at a plant hire company, always smells nice until you get too close, he goes through bottles and bottles of mens ‘perfume’. I can only think he gets a shower at his girlfriends house, hopefully, who’s a lovely woman. Nobody dare say anything to him because he just says keep out of his room and gets nasty!
BTW his room is on the top floor and has a bathroom up there which I do clean otherwise it would get into a terrible state and who wants to clean a filthy bathroom ugh ?