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How long did you know your husband/wife for before you were married?

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SirChenjin Mon 06-Jan-20 20:00:26

Leading on from another thread I’ve just posted on.

DH and I got engaged after six weeks and married just over a year later. His parents got engaged after a long weekend and then hardly saw each other between their engagement and the wedding because he was in the RAF. I have encouraged the DCs not to follow our lead - it was rather silly as you really don’t know the person, romantic though it was!

Can anyone beat my PIL?! Or DH and I?

BlueSapphire Tue 07-Jan-20 23:04:33

My DD also said that we were very brave living together in those days! Nobody turns a hair now.

GrauntyHelen Tue 07-Jan-20 23:59:09

we've only been married 2years and eleven months we knew each other for almost ten years before we got engaged then got married 11weeks later

harrigran Wed 08-Jan-20 00:21:11

Met DH when I had just turned 17, got engaged 2 years and five months later and married four years after meeting on a blind date. We have been married 52 years now.
I would have married DH when I was 18 but in those days you had to get written permission from your parents and I would not do that so I waited until I was 21.

yattypung Wed 08-Jan-20 12:31:49

We met in April 1962, I was sixteen he was 23. We married in Sept 1962 and we are celebrating 58 years of marriage this year

SirChenjin Wed 08-Jan-20 12:39:53

I showed DH this thread last night - we had a a smile looking at all of the stories, and a 'wow' at some of you really fast movers on here!

HettyMaud Thu 09-Jan-20 16:26:21

We went out 16 times that's all and decided to give it a go. We then lived together for 17 years before getting married 5 years ago. We are unalike but it works. He is totally reliable and honest which is important to me. He said he would treat me like a queen and he always has.

yattypung Mon 13-Jan-20 00:56:15

We met in March 1962, got engaged in April 1962, married in September 1962, and are still together 57 years later