My son and DIL had their first baby last May. They live in Australia. DIL’s parents live just down the road from them, and visit, or baby-sit almost every day.
Obviously my trip over there for the birth was cancelled, and it will be some time before I can visit. They have all been wonderful in keeping me in touch with my new GS, though he’s not so new any more! They send lots of photos and videos, and FaceTime a couple of times a week. He is beginning to recognise me, and I get lots of smiles.
I know that I will never have the hands-on relationship that his other grandparents have, but am just glad that he has one set on hand to help out with him.
My other Aussie GD, who is 4, has us in U.K. and her other GPs in Peru, so is deprived of much physical contact with both sets.
It’s tough when you don’t get to visit very often, but you can still build up a good relationship if you make the effort.
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic