My elderly mother lived with me for several years until recently. She has now gone to live with my brother though we don't know how long for as yet. When I phone her I have to use his mobile as she hasn't one of her own. He puts it on speakerphone and then hovers in the background. After a couple of minutes (when I'm obviously having to be slightly careful about what I'm saying) he interrupts and starts talking about himself, what he's doing, where he's going... etc. What I want to say is I just want to talk to Mum. But I don't know how to do it without being rude. A normal chat to her would be at least half an hour but now it's just a couple of minutes. I know he can't bear not being in the limelight but I do feel that Mum probably feels a bit put out too but is too polite to say anything. What on earth should I do? He and I aren't close but we get along to a degree. I haven't had a proper chat with Mum since she left here several weeks ago.
Anger management!!! Help needed.