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Explosive row with daughter

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Gingster Sat 10-Dec-22 13:21:55

I have just had a gigantic row with my daughter! I even swore at her. Never have I sworn at my children before.

So many issues going on and she has melanoma with ongoing treatment.

So how do I feel now? Absolutely terrible.

Maria59 Mon 12-Dec-22 09:10:45

I think you have done the right thing by sending a message. A few days of reflection is probably the best and then draw a line and start afresh. flowers

Greyduster Mon 12-Dec-22 09:48:55

Gingster try not to worry, it will pass. A similar thing happened to me last week, right out of the blue, at a time when DD and I are both seriously out of our comfort zones. It was devastating, for both of us. It won’t hurt for you both to take a step back. Normal service will be resumed I’m sure. In the meantime, I send you both a big hug.

crazyH Tue 20-Dec-22 14:15:22

Gingster I’m in the same boat at the moment 😫

Norah Tue 20-Dec-22 14:23:31

I'm sorry.
I think an apology, for 'gigantic row' to begin sorting, is best.

Gymstagran Tue 20-Dec-22 14:45:17

Gingster I did the same with my daughter it was stress over the cancer treatment, the drugs didn't help and neither did the constant scans and waiting for results. It blew over and im sure you will be on good terms in a while. A little break from each other helps. Sending you hugs and good wishes.