crimson that is exactly what happened to my only sister.Way back in 1985 at 50 she had a lumpectomy.The treatment for cancer wasn't so good then as it is now.The next year I took her on a holiday with my two daughters -her first holiday abroad.Later that year the cancer came back.I was working in Devon - her OH phoned to say she'd been rushed into hospital.I drove up to Lancs.
Dr told me it was the end and for next 4 days I sat by her bedside holding her hand and talking to her even tho she never regained consciousness.I just had short naps when other family came. I was on my own- went outside to stretch my legs and get a breath of air -she slipped away.I felt so sad but the nurse told me that often happens -that's the way they want it.
I've got another 'keen'... Ouch!