Have you ever been in this situation?

A surprising number of ways actually.
Not normally flashing lights though!
In no particular order, bible readings, a burden about something or other, coincidences[that one is often mocked by non christians, but christians find it crops up a lot], finding out that other christians are thinking along the same lines[sometimes when you have not even discussed it together] etc.

my above post is talking about prayer. if you need to do practical things, ie take some action, have a family meeting including your priest/minister.

how can anyone know the mind of God, or the direction that he wants you to go in.Stop worrying about this aspect, and simply put your faith in God .That is all that is needed, it's simple.

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I will pm you.

Smileless2012
Have you spoken to your vicar or priest or minster about this problem?

Sometimes people can put different interpretations on things and sometimes it takes someone who is not emotionally involved to suggest a compromise or third way forward.

soontobe!!!

Seriously, I think you just have to keep praying. Tell God about it. And wait. Some might say a priest or minister might be able to help you.