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There is definitely no loving God. Fact.

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jinglbellsfrocks Wed 21-Oct-15 09:46:47

Early this morning, on the World Service, I heard the voice of a six year old boy crying out to the doctors treating him, "Don't let me die! Don't bury me!". The doctors, trying to reassure him, laughed and said, "You're not going to die".

It was in the Yemen. The little boy had just seen a three year old, put into the ground. He was wounded himself shortly afterwards.

He died. The doctors were unable to save him.

If you have heard that young voice on a video on the internet, you will agree with me.

Smileless2012 Wed 12-Jul-17 17:08:16

No RosieLeah, God exists whether people need him or not. I don't always 'need' Him but He's always here with me. Our ES doesn't need us and hasn't for nearly 5 years but we still exist.

Luckygirl Wed 12-Jul-17 19:18:07

I am sure that many folk lived by the rule of kindness long before Christ. It simply makes sense.

Imperfect27 Wed 12-Jul-17 19:32:59

The 'golden rule' of loving others as ourselves is present in some form in all major religions.

Jesus Christ, born and raised a Jew, would have heard it and imbibed it through home and synagogue - He did not invent it, but restated it.

Luckylegs9 Sat 15-Jul-17 06:38:41

Man has the sin, it is the price we pay for being born and having free will. If there was no death, there would eventually be no life. I watch the television and see such cruelty and injustices liike everyone else, but I also see such acts if heroism and sacrifice, people laying down their lives for someone they dont even know, there is evil but goodness far outweighs it. That poor child and others like them, shouldn't have to go through that, that is down to the people that caused it to happen, men and women that inflict such acts and torture are dehumanised beings, they will never know true love.

Anniebach Sat 15-Jul-17 08:44:33

Christ gave 'love you neighbour as yourself' when he condensed the Ten Commandments

Love the Lord Your God with all your heart and your neighbour as yourself.

glammygranny Wed 19-Jul-17 10:33:48

God is exactly where most of this so called Christian country wants him to be.... on the very periphery. The world has spent so long telling God he is immaterial and not relevant to them so they can't very well then complain when bad things happen. When beautiful things happen and they do, do these same people then say "oh how wonderful God is so good". Sorry if this sound harsh but so many books have been written on the subject of evil in the world and it is attributed to the fall of man in the garden of Eden. I don't think this forum is the right place to get into a very indepth theological discussion but suffice to say evil and bad things have always existed. We are just so much more aware of it now with the advent of advanced social media.

SJP Tue 08-Aug-17 18:53:59

God does not exist, it is creation of man to provide comfort and explain things that can't be explained

Anniebach Tue 08-Aug-17 18:58:17

Proof?

devongirl Tue 08-Aug-17 19:08:26

Proof from you, Annie?

Anniebach Tue 08-Aug-17 19:11:48

Proof of what Devongirl?

devongirl Tue 08-Aug-17 19:19:44

That God does exist.

norose4 Tue 08-Aug-17 20:57:28

Believing has nothing to do with proving, in fact proving defeats the object of believing. I had to go to Sunday school as a child , it taught me to question everything ,distrust many things , & to always try to find some sort of proof or actual facts to substantiate anything that I'm told or anything I hear or read .

devongirl Tue 08-Aug-17 21:12:01

Of course that is the answer, norose4, but by the same token, why should someone be asked for proof that God doesn't exist? Surely that is also a matter of belief.

norose4 Tue 08-Aug-17 21:29:04

Exactly Devongirl, it cannot be proved or disproved one way or the other. I seriously have friends who believe in fairies.

Anniebach Tue 08-Aug-17 21:50:48

Then pointless stating something as fact if it cannot be proved isn't it? I choose to say I believe in God and respect those who say I don't believe in God.

varian Wed 09-Aug-17 11:32:49

You are right Annie, it it pontless to look for proof that God exists or that God does not exist.

Faith means belief without objective proof.

We should let people believe what they like and practice their religion or philosophy however they wish as long as it does not restrict the freedom of others or harm society.

norose4 Thu 10-Aug-17 16:33:15

Just re read the title of this thread, so would just like to say if there is a God he definitely is not 'loving ' and going back to the writings of the Bible , in the Old Testament he was allegedly forever inciting war & for tribes to rise up & smote other tribes, thankfully (according to the bible) he realised it wasn't a very nice thing to do, so sent his son to show us the way, but by having his son killed in the most barbaric way ! ??

whitewave Thu 10-Aug-17 17:33:28

Our beliefs systems have changed throughout our existence. This is simply another particular period we are going through with world religions being dominant at the moment. This will change and a different evolved belief system will eventually take our current arrangement.

Alexa Tue 02-Jan-18 12:04:43

I agree with the OP that there is no loving heavenly father. To claim that there is is a unusual notion of what a father does.

However there is no need, because of loss of childish belief in Santa Claus -type God, to lose faith in eternal goodness.

Mapleleaf Fri 19-Jan-18 23:22:09

I think, ( and it is just my own opinion, and I'm sure many will disagree), that it is we humans (some, not all) who do the bad and evil things, not God.

NannyC2 Mon 22-Jan-18 10:54:08

I do not agree with you.
Jesus was with that little boy in his suffering, just as he is with my 10 year old grandson who has suffered since his birth. He cannot walk, talk, is fed through a tube into his stomach, as well as many other problems. Yet he still maintains the most adorable smile.
Love transcends all pain, and if you allow Jesus into life, then you will know what I am talking about.
The Good News is that we cannot die, because Jesus, the son of God died for all of us, and his love is unconditional. God gave us free choice - he did not create wars - man does that. One day all will be revealed, meanwhile love and show to all those you meet.

God Bless

Crafting Mon 22-Jan-18 13:23:34

NannyC nice post. Sorry your grandson and family have so much to cope with.

Smileless2012 Mon 22-Jan-18 14:12:16

NannyC2for me your post is proof that God exists. I hope He blesses you and your familyflowers.

trisher Mon 22-Jan-18 14:31:32

Luckygirl thanks for the Epicurus says exactly what needs to be said.
But as for those who believe in god what do you think happens to someone who kills or commits acts of evil because they believe their god requires it of them?
What about someone who commits evil acts and then finds religion just before he/she dies will they be forgiven?
I can understand that it might be comforting to believe in a god when there are traumatic events in your family, but looking at the wider world must cast doubts on that.
As for those who claim god couldn't intervene, didn't he part the Red Sea for the Israelites? Are we to assume he has since lost interest and now can't be bothered?

Smileless2012 Mon 22-Jan-18 20:21:48

There's a huge difference trisher in believing in God and some one believing in "their god". If someone who has committed and act or acts of evil finds God, not just religion, and truly repents then God will forgive them. It's a difficult concept for us to grasp but is God's promise to all.

It is difficult to understand why such terrible things happen in this world but they are examples of man's inhumanity to man, and not God's. We continue to live with trauma within our own family and our belief in God sustains us, perhaps because it is belief in God rather than a god. He has also shown us that He has neither lost interest or can't be bothered.