Please, please, please stop having these cards read. No disrespect but there is no more meaning in them than you trying to read your future in the runes, clouds, tea leaves or waves. I personally would go and see a life coach and ask for some simple directions on boundaries, self care, health and the passive/aggressive continuum. We are talking about real life here not a pack of cards. All the things that are said to the querent are generalities which could apply to anyone - a dark haired woman, a handsome man. They work on generalities that could apply to anyone. Also, tarot readers are very clever at cold reading from the perfume you wear to the anxiety in your eyes. Go live your life and enjoy it authentically. Sorry to be so harsh but believe me I do know from experience.