Actually, it is my understanding that the PCC does , somehow or other, have more "control" over what goes on in churches (CofE) than the vicar does...
having said that,, we had a lady, who , whilst not bullying , was not being very Christian, and I gather a few of the older, ie. ones who been there sometime, spoke with her, perhaps more than once, and she certainly changed,, became a nice lady.
strange that there is no one there with sufficient command, christianity??? whatever , willing to take this job on.
me? I think I would just back off, let her get on with whatever turns her on, and just go to the church services... I appreciate that the fellowship is important, but really? isn`t the prime reason we go to church to worship?
and can`t you and those who are like minded just ignore her? have nothing to do with her? let her do her ... whatever... doesn`t stop being courteous and polite if and when she "allows" it other than that, shut her out? what would Jesus do? I know!!!! but what would He do? didn`t He say something about shaking the dust off your feet and leaving those difficult people to get on with it?