You ask what happens when we die? Well, I believe in a loving and forgiving God who forgives our sins. Everyone of us is human and we alllllll sway off the road that God intends for us, but i believe that if we realise we have done wrong, whatever it may be and we repent of our wrong doings and try our level best not to do them again then i believe that only God knows our hearts and forgives, if we truly repent.
Your BIL only has God to answer to, we as human beings have no say in what happens when a person dies, obviously.
Yes, if they're bad through and through then we only have our own personal view on it, but once we take our last breath, then God takes charge.
