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greenmossgiel Fri 06-Jul-12 21:40:14

Now that we're a year or so into Gransnet, we're getting to know each other quite well - on here, anyway! Some of us have been lucky enough to meet up with each other, and this has been relatively easy because those of us have managed it, might not have had to travel too far to do so (sorry, glass - you travelled miles and miles to have lunch with us in Edinburgh, but it was so worth it, I'm sure you'll agree)!
So, can those of us who would like to meet up, add their names to the list below, and suggest a place? Also, what type of 'meeting-up' would you like it to be? For example, would you prefer it to be more formal, where there would be lectures, or would you wish it to be lunch or, even to stay overnight.
GNHQ will hopefully become involved and offer relevant support and suggestions.

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 21:42:01

Me!

whenim64 Fri 06-Jul-12 21:48:20

Me! Long lunch and informal surroundings where we can sit around and chat after the meal if we want to. Preferably in the north-west.

jeni Fri 06-Jul-12 21:51:14

Weekend would be nice. Fairly informal. Perhaps discussion groups ,forums?

glassortwo Fri 06-Jul-12 21:57:26

Me but I think it need to be overnight/weekend as its a long way to go for us in the NE and Scotland.

greenmossgiel Fri 06-Jul-12 21:58:31

And me! I'd prefer a long lunch too, in a place where we can relax afterwards. I can catch the train to wherever, as long as it's not too far south.

yogagran Fri 06-Jul-12 22:08:58

I'm right down in the south green sad - not far from the south coast!

Notsogrand Fri 06-Jul-12 22:12:43

I'd love to come! I'm on the south coast so would need to stay overnight.

Notsogrand Fri 06-Jul-12 22:13:55

Wiki says somewhere near to Coventry is the geographical middle of theUK.

greenmossgiel Fri 06-Jul-12 22:20:12

Just read that, too, Notso! smile

Sewsilver Fri 06-Jul-12 23:22:18

Me for long lunch and chatting too. Preferably North West so similar idea to you When. What about regional gatherings to start with then no one has too far to travel/ too much expense then consider a more central meeting later on ?That way we could get to know local GN's first then branch out.

Butternut Sat 07-Jul-12 09:02:28

I would like to be a part as well, but unfortunately I think distance/cost would prevent it. Boo! sad

whenim64 Sat 07-Jul-12 09:16:16

I think Sewsilver's idea is sensible. Start regional and see how it develops, although there are so many Gransnetters from afar that i would really love to meet smile

bikergran Sat 07-Jul-12 09:59:53

I think it seems to be from which exact point you take things from...where the sort of middle of uk is..I used to think it was Dunnysop Bridge (which my friend and I ride to now and again on our bikes)..but apparently that is if you cut out a map of Grt Britain and balance it on a pencil lol..grinso I really don't know hmm

AlisonMA Sat 07-Jul-12 10:19:36

I believe Meriden (near Coventry and Solihull) is the centre of the country but I don't think it is very easy by train. Perhaps somewhere near the NEC (Birmingham airport) would be better as that has excelent road and rail links.

I would be happy to travel a bit for this and stay overnight but to give people more options I think a long lunch after which those who want/need to could go home and and those who can stay longer could have a group booking at a hotel.

I am slightly in favour of a regional one first just so everyone would know someone at a national one. Not sure how you define regions but perhaps by the number of people? Would 30-40 be a good number for a first meeting? Maybe even less? What do others think?

susiecb Sat 07-Jul-12 11:14:59

I'm in the east Midlands and would be happy to travel say Birmingham, Coventry, Peterborough, Cambridge. I'd like somewhere we could chat like a wine bar, Wetherpsoons something like that- no lectures or seminars though.

Notsogrand Sat 07-Jul-12 11:45:59

Birmingham sounds about right. An informal gathering sounds good.... somewhere we can just chat and eat/drink. smile

crimson Sat 07-Jul-12 11:52:58

Birmingham sounds fantastic. I was just chatting to someone yesterday from 'Dudlai' [jeni will know what I mean by Dudlai and not Dudley] and it left me with pangs of wanting to revisit the old place with it's wonderul friendy residents, albeit with a somewhat dark sense of humour [jeni will understand that also]. As a Brummie I love the place of my birth and have been planning a meet up with a cousin of mine there. Maybe we could go to the Museum and Art Gallery, one of my favourite places in the whole world, and have something to eat there also [only a suggestion; I'm getting carried away here smile. I only have Wednesdays off, by the way [other than weekends of course]. Then, of course we need to sort out the Newcastle meet up as well! How exciting!

absentgrana Sat 07-Jul-12 12:00:10

crimson What Newcastle meet up? Can I come please? I'm a short train ride away. By he way, is "Dudlai" like "Hove Actually"? (So you live in Brighton? Hove, actually.)

Everyone Happy to join in long chatty lunch – I am both long and chatty – or more formal meeting. Happy to travel to Birmingham or wherever. Happy to stay overnight. I don't drive so I can only travel to somewhere with good transport links – preferably trains. s I'm self-employed, my time is very flexible.

crimson Sat 07-Jul-12 12:06:52

I can drive but my driving is rubbish and Birmingham is a nightmare at the best of times. I'm oop north for 2 weeks in August from 20th so thought it might be nice to sort something out for 'our friends in the north'. Again, my driving is rubbish, but I can get the train or bus to Newcastle or Edinburgh even; we're staying in Bamburgh so a day by the sea could be a possibility [although more difficult for those relying on public transport]. It frustrates me that I can't just get in a car and drive places these days, my confidence in that respect being zilch....

GeraldineGransnet (GNHQ) Sat 07-Jul-12 12:34:59

As many of you know, we have had a grant to get Gransnet Local sites up and running. We hope to be launching the first of these after the summer. We really hope that this will give gransnetters who want to an opportunity to meet up offline - make it easier to organise, find venues etc.

We've always thought that a lot of people might want to have a separate identity on Local to enable them to go on posting anonymously on the main site. There advantages to being yourself some of the time and to being just a username at others and they needn't be mutually exclusive.

I can see that some people are going to want to meet up with their close friends on Gransnet anyway, regardless of how far away they live, and of course some already have - and we'll support that in any way we can. Just alerting you, really, to the fact that there will be more opportunities of this kind coming, especially for those who don't want to travel.

And of course for those who are NOT meeting up (see other thread) Gransnet will continue as ever.

greenmossgiel Sat 07-Jul-12 12:49:42

I think it's a good idea to have a 'regional' meet-up as well. I know Gally is away until September - not sure when in September, though. I would think she may want to be involved in something. Glass is in Newcastle area (she's on holiday this week), and I know that one of the other GN's might be planning to travel up with her at some point, though she lives in the Lincolnshire area. I could perhaps make it to a meet-up in Newcastle - (even better, Edinburgh, crimson) if that was ok with everyone?

AlisonMA Sat 07-Jul-12 13:09:51

Green do you mean 'everyone' or just some special group? I think that is too far north for some of us.

Perhaps if this is an invitation for a special group it would be better to do it by PM. Someone has already mentioned things could get cliquey.

crimson Sat 07-Jul-12 13:28:01

I'm pretty sure that any meet ups mentioned on these threads are for anyone who can get to them. I'm also sure closer friendships will be forged in the process, but that's the nature of the beast, I suppose. Perhaps after any meet ups someone could do a write up to involve anyone who can't get there to say what happened that day [obviously withing a framework of a certain amount of anonymity]. For me it's a nice thought to go somewhere that I've been planning to visit anyway and meet people there.

Elegran Sat 07-Jul-12 13:31:19

There is cliquey and there is regional. I think Greenmossgiel was being regional, not speaking to "special groups"

That is the trouble with trying to do a universal meet-up - everywhere is too far for someone.

I am all for regional meetings first, then when/if a national one is planned it will not be a sea of strangers.