Can I stick my neck out and say that Gransnet can be a difficult place to navigate as a newbie. You all 'know' each other, you know the rhythms and style of writing, for people trying to join in the conversation, it can be hard to get the tone right.
Some of us sit quietly and try to make an odd comment, some jump in with both feet, assuming the regular gransnetters will 'get' them.
I have a very dry sense of humour which I am keeping in check whilst I find my feet, but others, who are more confident, might want to just join in.
I have found it a bit difficult, because since I posted, there have been several threads saying how terrible GN is now with all new posters posting rubbish etc.,
I am one of thse new posters, and far from feeling welcomed now feel utterly disillusioned.
I will go back to lurking, i do enjoy the personalities on here, and love reading what you are up to. But thought a different perspective might be of interest first.
Take care all flowers