One of my daughter's was married last year. She and her now husband had been saving for ages, as I'm a cruel mum, and said I'd help with deposits for houses from my limited savings, but not with expensive weddings. They organised and largely paid for a big wedding. The groom's parents donated some money, we put in an amount but the couple did the bulk, and all the planning. It was a wonderful day. I spent months, honestly, months, looking for an outfit that would be suitable for the MOB but not make me feel like a transvestite, or a Lady mayoress. I ended up buying a lovely grey jacket, with pearl buttons and interesting cuffs, and some silk pewter grey trousers. I'm very tall, so can get away with trousers. I even bought a wee hat, and a pair of proper shoes. The shoes nearly did for me, but I felt so comfortable, and like 'me' in the outfit. The MOG wore a long floaty frock and hat, and looked grand. All together, we were all very pleased with our choices, relaxed and had a great day. I am not good at skirts or frocks, though I did get a lovely frock from Per Una, very rare for me, as their stuff is a bit frilly for me. The dress was grey (is there a theme here), a shift dress, with short sleeves that cover those bumpy bits and a round neck line. I bought it for a posh 60th and will wear it again, as it's comfy!